DHV
so i met up with one of my gf's at a bar and she brought an HB9. that night at the bar, i was funny, charming, she checked out my nice watch and had to compliment it. i casually slipped into the group conversation that i'm seeing a few girls. left them to go eat later that night and they both came to watch me eat? lol anyways, by the end of the night, i had to go so i said goodbye, and she immediately facebooked me. my only mistake that night was not asking for her number.

anyway, i fb chatted her the next day, said we should all hangout again and gave her my number. she said "defff! ill text you later so you have my number"

DLV
week went by, never got the number. my friend told me she's going out the other day and said HB9 was going and that i should come. so i facebooked HB9 that day for a quick chat and what time we're both coming out etc, then i brought up...you know you still owe me your number. after that she didn't respond. OK cool.

saw her later that night, but i got pretty drunk by then, she came really late. we were talking for a bit, she bought me a beer, then i asked her if she wants to dance. she says she doesn't dance so i said c'mon ill teach you, and she said no again - then i got cockblocked by one of her best guy friends who ended up showing up that night. i think by that time i was pretty wasted, so i ended up bouncing after that...

anyway, not sure what to do at this point or how much time i should let pass before i try speaking to her again. any advice would be helpful.

I think you made yourself too available. You initiated all the chats.....I have problems with that too....its a sticking point for me, I think we have the same problem.

Anybody know how we turn this around, so its them texting us?

yea maybe i got a little too impatient...i just thought she was really feeling me so i got more aggressive.

What did he do to cock block you? You lost any DHV you had as soon as that happened! What happened so we can advise you on possible ways to handle it if it happens again.


Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

once he came onto the scene, she just flocked to him. wasn't anything he did really, just his presence was an instant cockblock. i mean i let them chat or whatever, then joined in a group chat, but it was hard to isolate...i guess after that she just went with someone she was most comfortable with i suppose.

Ahhh I see, so he didn't cock block you, he just had more social value with her. Nothing you can really do about that under that situation. Move forward, and keep gaming her to guage her receptiveness! Good luck bro.


Peace...

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood