| A nickname is a term of familiarity between one person and another person.
I personally use nicknames as quickly as possible in order to develop early comfort.
Nicknames are often taken from a person's original name. If we look for the proper meaning for the word 'nickname' then a name by which a person is called more often than their given name is what can be called as a nickname.
I would rather choose a nickname based in interaction, or that is slightly sexual, but that's ME, and it works very well!
A mere addition of word 'sweet' can make a hell lot of difference in changing the mood of your target. Like “Sweetcakes” She will definitely feel more familiar and comfortable. The most wonderful part of nicknames is that you do not have to take special classes for learning nicknames names for your target. Just look for clues early in interactions. It shows your paying attention.
Nicknames make your interaction better. They simply make her feel more special.
A mere addition of a nickname can make a hell lot of difference in changing the mood of a conversation.
One of the key principles throughout any new interaction with a woman is to create comfort, trust, and a genuine connection.
Nicknames are one of the most powerful texting tools available for setting yourself apart, keeping attraction strong, building comfort and putting a smile on her face. Use them!
Through the use of a fun nickname, you begin to create a very playful vibe surrounding the interaction. Here are just a few of the effects you create by using nicknames:
They make her smile… and when she’s doing that, it’s much easier to build a solid connection with her.
They create an accelerated sense of intimacy. Nicknames are usually reserved for two people who know each other quite well, typically as a term of endearment created from shared experiences. By using nicknames early on you begin to subconsciously create feelings of comfort.
They demonstrate that you’re comfortable. When you’re comfortable, she is more likely to be as well. A person who creates nicknames for others is usually the one directing the interaction and the one who is most comfortable. It establishes a teasing and playful frame.
They create a little conspiracy. When you create a nickname for a girl it becomes an inside joke between the two of you, which is a powerful bonding experience.
Now that you can see why nicknames are so useful, let’s get into how to use nicknames effectively.
How to Use Nicknames!
For me they work epically well with day2 text/calling.
But nicknames are great virtually anytime you’re interacting with a woman. All you gotta do is drop it in the beginning or end of your message…
“hey Kitten! Just what kinda trouble are you getting into today!?”
Because these aren’t like the typical responses she gets from guys, she’ll most likely be caught off guard… and it’ll make her laugh and respond in a much more playful way (associating you with a fun time throughout the interaction).
Anytime you’re playfully texting back and forth is the perfect time to throw in a nickname. The only times you should avoid them are when you’re in the middle of sharing meaningful information with each other or building a deep sexual state.
They don’t have to be complicated or sophisticated, so it’s very easy to make up your own on the fly.
Picking the Right Nickname
I choose to have a default nickname that has historically served me well “Kitten” I feel this is playful, sexy, and fun!
Both your comfort level with a girl and the type of conversation you’re having (through text) determine what type of nickname to use. The only rule is that it must be fun, playful, and calibrated to your individual interaction with each girl.
Some girls can handle very sexually suggestive nicknames and laugh with you about it while others have trouble laughing about something as simple as “sugar buns.”
Just look back on your previous interactions and you will know what is appropriate. And then watch for when a girl begins to start calling you nicknames in return… this is an excellent indication that she is engaged and investing in the conversation as well as enjoying the nicknames you’re giving her.
Nicknames simply put girls in a good mood. Often, she will play along and give you a nickname as well. This is a good sign, a VERY good sign!
Enjoy the fruit,
Heywood
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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.
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