| So there's a girl, we've been good friends for about two years. She lives quite a long way away from me. She has always said that "if we're single when we're thirty we'll get married". I used to see her - as friends - about once a month. Anyway, two times ago that she came over, we were quite flirty and ended up kissing. She then came over a few weeks ago with her 14 year old sister. So given that the younger sister was there, we only flirted a bit, there was definitely some heat there, but we did nothing more than a quick peck of a kiss as didn't feel right with young sister being there.
Anyway, since then we've been texting quite a lot. We've always had quite deep conversations, and she has told me before that she sees me as about the only person she can really open up to about her problems. Last week she text me about something with her work, we chatted about it, sorted it out etc. Then when she asked what was up with me I gave her a brief update and then chucked in at the end "oh and I'm thinking of switching career to (won't say what here). Is that still a respectable career for your 30 year old future husband to have, or am I going to have to find myself someone better!"
She didn't text back. I left it a couple of days, then text her about something completely different. She just sent a message back saying "hey, I've got a migraine. I'll text you back when it's gone off."
It's now a week after the migraine text and still no contact from her. I've not sent anything to her again, as I was a bit pissed that she totally ignored my text and that she ignored my question about career change. I think slightly peed off as well because we always talk ages about her problems and the first time I bring up something that is slightly sounding out her advice, she blanks it for over a week!
What do you suggest I should text back/how to make contact again if I should?
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