• Notice: Congratulations, VFresh21, you have been selected for personal online coaching! I shall be contacting you shortly.

• UPDATES: 1. Applications will close on September 25th, 2012 and a student shall be selected on that day. 2. Price has been lowered from $500/mo to $300/mo

I don't think I've been contributing enough of what I have to offer to the pickup community lately. It's time for me to pick things back up. I'm going to choose one of you to mentor personally via email, SPAM, and my "Hidden Alumni Forum" on this very site.

I'm going to be completely straight with you. I'm only going to pick one student for this online mentorship and it's NOT going to be free. However, as with everything I have ever offered before, it's going to be cheap as hell.

I'm only choosing ONE student so that I can focus COMPLETELY on YOU.

You probably already know who I am, but here's some background information to you new people: I've been studying and practicing everything there is in the seduction community for nearly a decade now (9 years, to be exact). Over the course of this long period of trial and error, I've learned to filter out the bullshit that a lot of pickup "gurus" try to teach and I have also fully grasped the concept of being a pickup artist. My specialty is FWB (friend with benefits) relationships. I've successfully trained countless men, some who have even gone on to become arguably better than me. Yeah, I'm that good at teaching pickup.

Here are some reviews my former students have written about my teaching:
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I'm in a happy relationship with a wonderful, beautiful girl at the moment, so that means I spend less time in the field and I have more time to cater to the needs of a student who needs to learn how to get good with women.

This is my calling in life. I want to teach you what I know. I want you to have success with women and dating. I want to pull you from the dark dredges of fear and loneliness and show you that there is a very practical path to the top. Whatever stage you are at right now in your romantic life, I've been there. And I want to help guide you to the next step.

It's going to be a lot of work, but this shit is all about changing your life, so it's to be expected, right? Read some of my posts if you need a better idea of what I have to offer. If you're ready to make a huge, long-term process of change, read on:


***PROGRAM DETAILS***

I'm only accepting one student for this program, and it will last for a period of three to six months, depending on the needs and schedule of the student.

During the period of any given month, we will have virtually unlimited contact with each other via email, and we shall schedule AT LEAST two SPAM calls for each month. You shall be provided access to my "Hidden Alumni Board" so that I can give my full personal attention to your JOURNAL. If you already have a journal, we'll use that. You do not need to already have a journal to apply, though.

I will be giving you a lot of missions and homework involving research, field work, and plenty of introspection. Be prepared to "face your inner demons."


***APPLICATION DETAILS***

Post your application IN THIS THREAD. I am only offering this mentorship to members on THIS forum.

I will ONLY look at the first ten applications and choose ONE student. After ten, I will not accept any additional applications. I may or may not choose one other student to put on a "waiting list" just in case. That being said, ONLY APPLY if you are SERIOUS about becoming a happy and amazing pickup artist. Also, underage kids need not apply.

Your application should include -

Age:
Location:
Place of birth:
Occupation:

How and why did you get into pickup, and when did you first encounter pickup material?

What pickup methods, if any, are you familiar with, and how familiar are you with them?

What are your hobbies and passions?

What are you trying to achieve with pickup?

What are your religious affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Rastafarian because the history and practices help me feel more connected to my Jamaican roots.")

What are your political affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Libertarian because I believe in non-intervention based foreign policy")

Why do you believe that I, Chief, can help you?

Additional Information (if any):


***PRICING***

I will not be accepting bribes of higher prices or anything of the sort. Everyone will get a fair chance.

Understand that this sort of service will not come cheap from anyone as competent as I am, but I will surely be offering the lowest rates for the type of service I'm providing. Weekend bootcamps will cost you upwards of thousands of dollars for the weekend. Other online coaching programs might cost you more than a thousand dollars a month if you're lucky enough to find one that cheap. Instead of charging up the ass like that, though, all I will ask for is a straight donation of $300 per month, via SPAM. And, like I already mentioned before, you will NOT increase your chances of being selected if you offer more.


Good luck.

Thank you Chief, for offering this opportunity! Here is my application:

Age: 35
Location: Traveling the world by motorcycle (Currently in Sucre, Bolivia)
Place of birth: USA (Raised in Colorado)
Occupation: Software Engineer (not currently working)
Seven years ago I realized my life was messed up and needed (lots) of fixing, especially with women. A lot has changed since then, but not much in the area of pickup. I found David DeAngelo's material at the time, but because of what I was going through in life I never followed through with it and instead worked on my inner game. In the past month I've again started looking into what is available for outer game.
Cocky+funny: I decided that it doesn't suit me so I'm familiar with only the basics.
Natural Game: Specifically, The Zen of Meeting Women by Max Weiss. Working on putting it into practice.

I have read lots of free material on forums and have a passing familiarity with lots of techniques, but not put anything into practice beyond doing approaches.
World travel, motorcycles, Irish music (fiddle and guitar), reading, and meeting interesting people.
FWB and short term relationships. I would not shy away from something more serious, but it isn't what I am looking for right now. There are also lots of interesting women traveling the world and I would like to be more comfortable getting to know them.
I am deeply spiritual but not religious. I was raised Christian, but life experience has led me away from the structure of Christianity and I've yet to find another religion which fits my beliefs.
I am libertarian (in belief at least, I'm actually registered independent) because I believe people should have the right to rule themselves with minimal government intervention.
I have come to realize lately that I need a mentor. I have the drive, willpower, and intelligence to teach myself almost anything but pickup is about as far from my past experience as it is possible to get. The process has thus been slow and painful and I'm not even certain I'm making any progress any more. I had not actually heard of you before last Friday when I stumbled up on this post, but since then I've been reading what you have posted and thinking about your offer to be a mentor. Everything I've read in your posts and in the reviews of others indicates that you can help me get past my sticking points and on to the path of mastery in a way that is congruent with who I am now and who I want to become.
I am traveling the world by motorcycle. I am currently in Bolivia (Sucre) and plan to be traveling for a few more years. This has many benefits as a learning environment, but also some drawbacks and limitations.

I do not speak Spanish very well, though I'm not certain if this is necessarily a problem or not.

There will be times where I am out of contact because I am riding through remote locations with no internet access (perhaps up to a week at most each time). There will also be occasional times when I'm in small towns in the middle of nowhere which may have little or no opportunities for pickup. To balance this out, I can travel relatively slowly over the next few months and spend time in cities and tourist spots.

Internet connections are usually good enough for SPAM, but not always and I cannot predict the quality ahead of time.

Thank you for considering me!

Screw it, why not.

Age: 33
Location: Perpetual Traveler
Place of birth: Israel
Occupation: Retired Entrepreneur

How and why did you get into pickup, and when did you first encounter pickup material?

~18 month ago. First read some stuff about 3 years ago.

What pickup methods, if any, are you familiar with, and how familiar are you with them?

MM, 60YO, RSD. Spent way too much time reading in the first few months. Actually, I'm happy I did. Good theory is important. But field experience is king

What are your hobbies and passions?

Flying planes. Diving. Writing (working in a screenplay) dancing (going to Cuba soon to learn at the source), HDR photography and filmmaking.

What are you trying to achieve with pickup?

I want to (and already kind of able to) be able to pick up girls anywhere and at any time. I don't believe in monogamy and plan on staying single at least until I'm 45... being good at this is important, especially as I keep traveling and need to meet new girls where ever I go.

What are your religious affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Rastafarian because the history and practices help me feel more connected to my Jamaican roots.")

Atheist. Agnostics are atheists without balls.

What are your political affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Libertarian because I believe in non-intervention based foreign policy")

Liberal: (adj) Free from prejudice or bigotry; tolerant. Not bound by tradition. Characterized by generosity and a willingness to give in large amounts. Given freely or abundantly. Not strict or rigorous; free! Befitting a free man.

Why do you believe that I, Chief, can help you?

I've read many of your posts. I'm at a high level and can only learn from someone who is on a higher level than me...

Additional Information (if any):

Check out my blog: www.vanofvictory.com

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Perpetual Travel, Seduction & Financial Freedom - Check out my blog: http://vanofvictory.com

Age:18
Location:Boston
Place of birth:Boston
Occupation: Student

I got into pick up to gain confidence in interacting with women and also to be able to get any girl I want. I first encountered pick up through a friend abouit two years ago.

Im vaguely familiar with mystery method but I mainly try to work on just my confidence which i have found helps my game.

My hobbies/passions are car racing, Texas Hold'em,and pick up.

I am trying to be the best I can be at getting women and being the envy of those around me.

I have no specific beliefs, I am a realist.

I do not follow polotics because I think the country I live in U.S.A. is politically corrupt and nothing I can do will change that.

I believe you can help me because of your high level expieriance in the pick up field and I need guidence because I am not sure what steps to take at this time.

Thanks a lot

-Mark

I'll later do the same, find an apprentice or two and make sure the knowledge keeps propagating.

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Perpetual Travel, Seduction & Financial Freedom - Check out my blog: http://vanofvictory.com

Chief, I originally posted this as my goal in what I am trying to achieve with pickup:
Thinking on this the past few days I realized this is wrong. It is the result of what I am actually trying to achieve:

I want choice. I want control over my own sex life and relationships instead of being tossed in the wind like a play toy (one that was never even in favor). I want to show the women I meet that I'm interested in having fun in a sexual way instead of just sitting around chatting like old friends, then see how far we can take it...find out how much fun we can have together. I'm traveling the world and constantly on the move so I'm focused on short-term fun, not long relationships (though anything is possible). I feel I'm still incomplete without the ability to do this and so I've decided to make changes and step onto the path of Mastery in the art of pickup.

This is the essence of what I want to achieve with pickup.

Chief,

I am posting a short version and then another loner version that goes into more detail if you would like it. Then in a third post I have attached links to more private information to let you get to know a little more about me. The password is in a PM to you.

-VF

How and why did you get into pickup, and when did you first encounter pickup material?


I got into pickup in 2007 because I wanted to hook up with one of my little sisters friends. Basically when I figured out how much theory and material was on the internet about the subject I immediately became hooked. I wouldn't say I began "pick up" at this point though. I still do not even consider myself as actively practicing "pick up". How I look at the community and the material is philosophies and tactics to reach goals in your love life. My goals are to grow a healthy relationship with the highest quality of women. I have no real interest in racking up massive numbers of lays. Although it does sound fun for sport, my "sport" is my entrepreneurial ventures.



What pickup methods, if any, are you familiar with, and how familiar are you with them?


MM, 60, Gun, RSD, David D, Jeffries, Dicarlo, etc. Ive read virtually everything of substance out there and then some. I could describe the differences to someone as if it were for a school project but I have not actively practiced any of them. The philosophies and many of the tactics have certainly embedded themselves within my mind as I started reading all of this years ago while I was even younger than I am now. I have not gone out though and tried to follow a routine step by step.



What are your hobbies and passions?


I have an incredible number of these.



Creation & Innovation - If I am passionate about anything be it relationship philosophy, business, MMA, I will want to experiment with it and see if I can discover any new methods to achieve goals.



Lifestyle Optimization - I believe there is an ideal of the way a human can use his environment to optimize his experience on earth. This meaning simply that if a person were to set out the farthest reaching goals imaginable - for example to be the next president of the USA and also a billionaire, there is a way that you must live to achieve that. You must cultivate yourself to be able to perform day in and day out and use the momentum from the previous day to propel you even farther the next. For me, this involves rigorous use of a schedule and note taking, healthy diet, daily morning exercise, and many others. It is the habits of my life that constantly are being refined to become the certain type of person whom I feel that not only do I want to be, but this world really needs.



Mixed Martial Arts - I have pursued MMA primarily to cultivate in my mind a dominating persona. The simple feeling of being able to dominate everyone in the room is a powerful one. It is one that I believe beneficial for every walk of life as a man.



Skydiving - I skydive for many of the same reasons as I train MMA. The feeling when an airplane hatch opens and you realize that you are about to jump out of it is like nothing I have ever felt before. The entire training program of skydiving is primarily just conditioning you to be able to logically think while falling through the SPAM. Being able to focus in such states of panic is beneficial to me in that I believe it makes my resting senses much more relaxed and focused.



Zen Buddhism & Meditation - Eastern Philosophy has really intrigued me in the past months. By just being able to understand the perspective of Buddhism I feel that I have enhanced my perspective enough to





What are you trying to achieve with pickup?


Rather than use the word "pickup" I would call it relationship refining as it touches on what I am after more so.



I believe that by allowing women to have control over a mans emotions that he is severely limiting himself in this world. I have massive goals and aspirations for my life and every minute I spend worrying about a women and if she likes me etc. is a minute that I have lost to pursue my dreams. By learning how to handle my relationships with women, I will maintain on track and be able to reach a higher potential in this world.



What are your religious affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Rastafarian because the history and practices help me feel more connected to my Jamaican roots.")


I believe that our world is ripe for a new form of religion. This is not to say that any other religion is wrong. What I mean is that our world is not unified and we are fighting like little children about who's philosophy is the right one. I believe they are both outdated for the world we live in and people need a new way based on fundamental teachings. One of my goals is to create this new way for people.



What are your political affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Libertarian because I believe in non-intervention based foreign policy")


My political beliefs echo my religious beliefs. It is more apparent than ever that our world can't handle the type of stress that we have placed on it sociologically. Government structures in every sector of the world are breaking down. The world is ripe for a new way to live. As ridiculous as I'm sure I sound saying on a pick up artist website that I want to pioneer a revolution, any rational thinker can see that what I say about our most trusted social systems is true and that a new way will be inevitably need to be brought to fruition if we are to survive as a spices.

Why do you believe that I, Chief, can help you?


This past weekend, I decided that I am seeking out a mentor who can work with me on a regular basis in my dealings with women. Finding out that you were offering this opportunity seems almost like sheer fate to me in that I think you are one of the best people in this world to help me right now. Obviously it is the knowledge you have from your experience that plays into me saying this but also I believe that with your connections and experience of building up a seduction platform like www.pick-up-artist-forum.com, we can accomplish something great on a global scale much larger than simply teaching another student the ways with women. More on this in the file links below...[/u]

Age: 22
Location: Nashville, TN
Place of birth: Virginia
Occupation: Entrepreneur

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1. How and why did you get into pickup, and when did you first encounter pickup material?


I have been reading about pickup since 2007. I got into it because I want to be able to have absolute control over my life. Initially it was when I wanted to get with one of my sisters friends over a spring break. I had no clue how to go about the situation so I naturally searched online. I came across a book called the Black Book or something like that. It was helpful at the time but since then I have realized that it is nothing compared to what is out today.

Going on further about this concept of having absolute control over my life - this spans much much farther than just pickup. It is actually my "step 1" so to speak in terms of achieving my overall life goals. As you can see, I am an entrepreneur, therefore I am already putting my balls on the line 100% to get what I want in life. I don't care how hard it gets for me and how long it takes for me to learn how to successfully run a business, nothing is worth not being able to lead my own life and make my own decisions. I have been going strong with this path of controlling everything for a few years now. It has escalated dramatically in the past 9 months since I put a hold on my college career to dive into entrepreneurship. The amount of discipline it requires is unparalleled. I am using every resource I in my "toolbox" to thrive in this environment and I am happy to say that I am seeing great success so far. More on this later though...


1. What pickup methods, if any, are you familiar with, and how familiar are you with them?



I hate to say that I have read so much material that I know various teachings of all but would say I am an expert on none. I know MM fairly well as far as the philosophy and tactics go. I like Gunwitches philosophy a lot as a simple natural way of pickup. I have read a little bit of David D and Ross Jefferies. I was not into Jeffries as much as how I read it I interpreted the methods as pretty creepy from a girls perspective. David D stuff I overplayed every time I acted through it. Basically I would say awkward sexual shit for awhile and I became arrogant as hell.

What are your hobbies and passions?

I am passionate about many things and I have many hobbies but I will focus on the core of what I would describe my life as about right now.

I am passionate about creation: I love everything that is cutting edge and strive to be everything that is cutting edge. In every aspect of my life whether it is my business, what my business creates, my workouts, my activities, etc. I get incredible satisfaction in developing a more efficient method to do something or simply just building something "cooler".

I am passionate about experimentation: I love to experiment with various ways to get the edge in whatever I am doing. This results in much failure but I love it simply because of the satisfaction I get when I finally reach my goal. It is sort of like gambling or a lottery addicion I feel like (although I have neither of those). I will just try something "for the hell of it" to see what happens. This nature of mine I feel like is the cause of much subsequent pain in my relationships and other areas of my life. Curiosity really is a bitch in this sense but I love it.

I have tons of hobbies like I said earlier. I have active ones and inactive ones. I will list them in priority order as of right now

Brazillian Jiu Jitsu - Actively doing this. I am considering dropping my program to start one for general MMA though with a stronger focus on live fighting.

Skydiving - I would love to be doing this still but it is very expensive. I am certified to dive solo and am working towards an A license. I have completed 7 jumps to date - 6 through the AFF course and 1 after I graduated where I was 100% solo (In the course instructors dive next to you) Once I get my business rolling and can budget this in it will be one of the first things I start back up.

Boxing - I trained in this in during a semester in college to compete in a Fraternity boxing tournament. I practice on the bag every now and then but would love to start sparing again. This will be part of the general MMA gym I am considering getting a membership to.

Snowboarding - Every winter for the rest of my life. I just got my own board and gear last winter. This sport is amazing.

Poker - Definitely one of my favorite hobbies. I love how mental the game is and how it is such a subtle domination factor that wins the game.

Weight Lifting - I have done this on and off since 2004. In the past, I would get very serious with weightlifting and peak out. I believe the reasons are a combination of my over stressing in the gym and not having any form of outside training. Ever since about a year ago I have been an extremely stubborn individual. I would never reach out to anyone for help and would want to do and learn everything on my own.

Swimming - Good cardio supplement to my exercise. I competed in high school despite really hating swimming. I can't argue with how ripped it gets my midsection though…

Guitar - Ive been playing since 2004. At this point it is really just something that I mess around with when I'm bored. I haven't had the urge to hone in on my skills.

Reading - Im absolutely obsessed with books. Its bad. I can't go in Barnes and Noble or a used book store without spending almost $100 and two hours more of my time than I had planned. Im obsessed with knowledge what can I say?

Here are the types of books I'm into as this is a MASSIVE hobby of mine. Consider all of the time most people spend watching television and imagine them reading books instead. That is me. I LOVE books. I read them a little at a time and jump around a lot depending on what is going on in my life at the moment. I have specified ones that I am currently reading.

Autobiographies
Richard Brandson
Steve Jobs - Currently Reading -
Malcolm X

Business Books
Jack Welsh - Winning - Currently Reading
Guy Kawasaki - The Art of The Start


Dating Books
Revelation
DYD
Gunwitch Method (Audio Series)


Life Optimization Books
Tony Robbins - Unleash the Giant Within
Napoleon Hill - Think and Grow Rich
Stephen Covey - 7 Habits of Highly Successful People

Spirituality
Zen Mind Beginners Mind - Currently Reading

Yoga - I will integrate this into my schedule soon. I have just embarked on a new workout schedule of 1 hour per week of weights and cardio in addition to my BJJ. It is designed to put on a fair amount of muscle so I will want to remain flexible to still be able to fight well.

Buddism/Meditation - About a year and a half ago I began diving deeply into religion and spirituality. It has affected my life in incredible ways. I have dissected the bible and the southern "bible belt" Christian community and am now on to Buddhism. Christianity taught me an incredible amount about the USA and how people here think. Now that I am studying Buddhism I am beginning to see a great amount of flaws within western thought. The concept of duality is one that I see all over the place that I feel hinders understanding. Buddhism has really shown me a "new way" I feel like in addition to the importance of being at onces "center" to function at optimal efficiency. I am fascinated with these teachings. A big part of me feels that fully understanding eastern thought (when coming from a western background) is essentially "the core" of fully understanding our world. Probably understanding the core of all religious and spiritual thought would give the most holistic worldly perspective. This is a BIG passion, curiosity, hobby, of mine though (to understand and learn from all religions) as they have essentially guided every decision our race has made for the past thousands of years. To me, this perspective would be a seemingly unstoppable force in terms of worldly influence and leading a movement to bring cultures closer together.

Travel - I have lived in 5 different states already at the age of 22. I moved constantly while growing up due to my fathers job. He always seeked out the greatest opportunities wherever they lied. I feel like this is ingrained in me as I am ready to move to Miami or LA when ready to get an edge on my current work and then travel the globe to learn and seek other opportunities. I plan to build my business up and model it so that I can lead it from any place in the world. Once that happens I plan to explore the major parts of the world and its cultures. I believe by doing this I will open my mind up to see ways in thought and life that could be adopted in other areas to enhance peoples lives. For example a certain way a tribe in africa does something may be a good way for a particular business to function. I hope to have explored nearly every inhabited area and culture within our planet by the time I lay to rest.

Fashion - I love fine clothing and learning ways to express myself through my wardrobe. Things like getting jeans slightly too long to flip the bottoms up, italian cuffs, french cuffs, etc. Depending on the day, occasion, and my mood, I love to be able to tweak my outfit in various ways. I love details in my clothing as well. For example, I love how Bogosse shirts play with their button patterns and stitching. Some of them have little buttons for if you go to roll your cuffs up on your biceps. I love fitted clothes. I found a 4th generation indian tailor with 40 years of experience in my town somehow because I am obsessed with having my clothes fitted. Actually, he found me because I would get so many things tailored. I have come to believe that having your shirt fitted properly is superior to having the nicest shirt in the world baggy. Unless that is your style… its not mine. Nordstrom is akin to Barnes and Noble for me. I can't walk in there without blowing my wallet and half of my day.



What are you trying to achieve with pickup?

I believe that ones ability to maintain composure and control of his love life is essential for success in other areas. I believe that the core skills and discipline necessary are the same core skills and discipline which equate to success in these other areas. With that being said, I don't believe I can achieve the goals and cultivate the life that I have described above without being able to have control over my love life. I hate to admit it but my skills in this area are simply pathetic. I am able to attract absolutely gorgeous girls but when it comes to leading the relationship and planting myself as the Alpha in the relationship, there is something wrong. I slowly succumb to their will and become AFC without even realizing it. I literally just had this situation happen to me. I was just dating a girl who was extremely into me and had nearly everything that I could possibly ask for in a girl. She attacks the world and goes for what she wants, loves business, is as driven as I've ever seen a girl, and is top tier as far as looks go (won a state level pageant, became a model and music video lead overnight). This girl would hang out with me on a whim every time I called. She would pay for dinner and movies. She invested greatly into the relationship and we had the most incredible connection until I would lose control of my feelings. I would literally feel myself fending for her validation and attention at certain points and that is where the relationship would go stale. Where initially here opinion of me was so high that she wondered whether she was good enough or pretty enough for me, now she has little respect for me and has started to subtly patronize and demean me. I want to beat myself over the head with a hammer. It is pathetic that I have let this happen. I feel like I don't even deserve to be called a man. It is the most frustrating and emotionally turbulent thing I can even think of. If my business fell apart somehow I would be pissed as shit but I would immediately find a way to resolve the issue. With this, I don't even know what the fuck to do. I have a bunch of shit floating around in my head from various pickup books and advice but I have no confidence in any of it. My relationship experience is so poor that I usually have to consult my friends and/or family when difficult situations arise. It is the most frustrating thing for me given that I feel like I have the whole package when it comes to a guy and I still get disrespected by girls. Just writing this whole paragraph is infuriating me to think about. I never want to go through this again. I will not be naive and think that I actually never will, but I damn sure want to make progress to reduce the amount of times it happens relative to the number of relationships I am in. That is why I am applying here. I just finished making a sentimental birthday card that I feel obligated to give to this girl despite the disrespect and clear lack of interest and favoring other guys over me. I plan on dropping this off in her mailbox and taking massive action to make a habit of building up a rolodex of females to grow relationships with. That is why this has happened - because I have no one else I have feelings towards that I am talking to.

I want control over this area of my life. I know I have the goods for the girl. I just don't have the confidence in how to present them. It is basically some technical stuff that I am after. When it comes to my business, I am as confident as they come. In fact, I am way too confident. I am arrogant as fuck and I have to tone it down. When it comes to girls, I am the exact opposite. It is easily understandable how I picked this girl up at an entrepreneurs event. My dick was the biggest in that room and everyone knew it. I had every girl there ready to give me their numbers - and THEY DID! This particular girl came over and waited to make future plans with me and exchange contact info WHILE another girl there was flirting with and exchanging contact info with me. Thinking of this I'm like WHAT THE FUCK? There has to be some minuscule little paradigm I hold within myself that makes it so when in one situation I dominate the place literally without making an effort and in another I let the girl tool me and basically give her the leash. Its some sort of habit. I notice it with my Dad. He runs shit in a lot of areas but when it comes to girls, he is simply embarrassing.

I want to bridge the gap between these areas and absolutely RUN SHIT wherever I go when it comes to women. I am pursuing an extremely ambitious life here. I simply don't have time to mess around when it comes to women. I need to have confidence in my skill set so that when I come across a women who peaks my interest, I know how to present myself and I know what I did wrong afterwards. I don't want to be wasting my time with girls who don't value me like I am now. It is simply bad for my self-esteem to be treated like a second rate lover. Writing this, I think I just realized the case - and that is that I am a second rate lover. Girls want to get swooped up in passion and I simply don't know how to do it. I am the ultimate provider and marriage type I know for sure but when it comes to stimulating a women and guiding her through an emotional journey, I just simply don't have it. That is what I want to learn from pickup.

What are your religious affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Rastafarian because the history and practices help me feel more connected to my Jamaican roots.")

I could write another essay on this but I want to keep it short. Simply put, I hope to never affiliate with any one religious group ever again. I will affiliate with every religious group or none. Basically, I believe they all have value and I respect everyone who is a part of them, but I refuse to become a part of any one group. I believe that by identifying with one particular group I am closing my mind off to the rest of the world. I believe there is a truth in all religions whether that be a way to find peace in life or in that it was simply created for rulers to maintain order and obedience within society. Again, I deeply respect anyone religious. In fact, the amount of my respect respect for them parallels their depth of religious beliefs. I love diving deep within religious philosophies. At the same time though, I hesitate to turn any of the philosophies or forms of thought into a conviction until I have fully explored the world and its religions and philosophies. The best way to describe this is like a scientist who calls something that is a conviction for most a theory. Until I explore all that is human culture, every religion and spirituality is a theory to me which depending on how much I believe it expresses the worldly truths of culture as I see it, will remain such until I have reached a level of understanding where I am "enlightened" so to speak.

What are your political affiliations, and why? (ex. "I'm a Libertarian because I believe in non-intervention based foreign policy")

My political beliefs are much like my religious beliefs in many ways. I respect the philosophies of every party but identify with none. I actually think America is in need of a revolution to modernize the way we function. A trip to the DMV or paying a speeding ticket is enough to see how inefficient and behind our government is. Walmart is about to let customers check out with iPhones while the department that renews vehicle registrations does its accounting on one of those old number typewriters (i don't even know what the hell they are called they are so old). If this is how their front line is I can only imagine how disorganized and antiquated what we don't see is. I don't even want to see the insides of their financial workings. Obviously they are horrible otherwise we wouldn't be about to default on our national debt.


Why do you believe that I, Chief, can help you?

I have no doubt that you can help me. I literally began searching for someone whom I could begin a relationship with as my professional dating coach right when I finished the birthday card that i described above. I wanted a local one here in Nashville simply because they will know me better from human interaction and therefore be able to offer better advise but from how you described the relationship you want with the person you choose to mentor, I have no doubt that I would propel like a rocket in my learning.

I like specifically how you emphesise artist in your post. That is what I want to be. I am a connessouir type in that I want to master the ins and outs of everything I do. I have been like this since I was a little kid. When I form my parent company I am actually going to tie the word and/or concept of Connessouir into it because it reflects my mind so perfectly. I don't get satisfaction in just knowing something. I want to master it. I want to be able to reach the deepest level of connection with women that the didn't even know was possible. I want the physical and emotional experience to be something so passionate and incredible that it is simply surreal to them. When a women is with me, I want her to be in an absolute state of ecstasy: where they feel like they are completely free and there isn't a worry in the world. I am not just talking about sex here at all. In fact, I am talking more about outside of the bedroom then inside. I am an adventurer and I want to take her along.

I believe wholeheartedly that despite this being the epitome of a lover, I can become it. However I don't believe that it can happen without others support and guidance. You all have gone down this path and having your mentorship will act as a catalyst in this process. As you can see from what I have written, I am pursuing a very active life right now where time is my most precious resource. I will have short windows on weekdays to include women, breakfasts, and lunches here and there, and then of course the weekends where I will have more free time. When I am dedicating time to the relationship, I need to be able to focus and quickly decipher what is happening and where my shortcomings are. Without a strong mentor, I will go slow like I have been before. Like I said, I am through with that and am in the process of finding someone to help guide me in this area. The fact that I stumbled upon your post is like fate to me in that I am looking for someone who is passionate about this, will give me the attention I require, and is someone whom I know is credible and that I can trust their advice. I couldn't ask for someone better to guide me through this journey then you.

Congratulations to VFresh21!

I shall be contacting you shortly.