Long story short i got a haircut and clean shave for this gettogether my friends gfs friend is singke and they wanted to have a competition to see who could woo her me or my friend. This is the 2nd time i have gone oit we all got drinks i talked a little he didnt do much either. We go over to play pong at a buddies still nothing i leave at 130 in the morning. Well i check fb and see they were flirting hardcore after i left. I know this sounds bad but i feel like shit i have no game no confidence and no skill. I talked very little cuz i say stupid shit alot but all im asking here is for someone to guide me to ghe rigjt path. If i hve more nights like last i will never get laid.

Say the "stupid shit" It's way better than not trying!Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid! And take a chance. She just may think it's cute!

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First off, I'm gonna call you out on something. Your grammar. When I fixed my internet grammar my confidence immediately boosted to a whole new level. I convinced my self I'm intelligent, I take the extra steps so I appear to be civilized, and I come across as a guy who has conversation to offer.

Sorry for digressing, let me give you some advice. I think you're underestimating this "stupid shit". How stupid is it? Girls have a response to everything. Sometimes they say it out loud, sometimes they don't. Drag it out of them. You could say " the dumbest thing possible" and still get a conversation out of it.

ie. "Baby elephants scare me, what do you think?" Stupid, but this is actually a past experience of mine. I then told her I've always wanted to ride an elephant. Turns out she is involved in equestrian activities (horse back riding). Conversations escalate.

I think people underestimate the importance of conversation. Sure the opener is key, but depending on the situation is usually not hard. Did you tell her you just got a hair cut and asked for her opinion? Girl's love their own opinion, holy shit, especially when it comes to hair. Ask yourself this. "What's my problem?"

1. Fear of rejection?
2. Is your voice too soft?
3. Confidence boxed in?

You gotta tell us. Also, you can't go hitting on a girl with expectations to get laid. You have to go in with the mentality to meet her as a person. Then you can shift to the next phase.

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