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I don't understand what you don't understand...
Yea, it's a fast song playing. Then I will start to slow down the dance, leading her to slow the fuck down.... slow... slow... slow... then we will be almost standing, or really just standing, and I'll come close to her real slow and will kiss her. Not in a sexual way, but in a "loving" "I will take care of you" "I can't believe we met in a club" "this is the beginning of a long relationship" way... do you understand the difference?
So it's like I STOP everything for a moment, regardless of the people and music around, and create this bubble of emotions around us. Girls want to FUCK but they also want to be LOVED man... so I show them this side of me. So I give them this kiss on the cheek, or forehead, then maybe just give her a big HUG.... then we'll start dancing again.
They fucking MELT from this shit.
I mix it with pulling their hair and being violent, with letting them scratch me, with push/pulling, then salsa, then being soft again. Dude I give them a whole production.... haha. But you need to know when to use it, it's not for every girl. You need to do it only when you see that it's "right" for the girl.
^ okay, now you explain better since it was fast music, you have no choice, since that is the only way to escalate.... I DO SOMETHING SIMILAR, but i give a bit more kissess, i give one on the forehead, then i go to both cheeks, then the nose then, the chin, then i act like i will go for the mouth, but don't kiss, and slide to the neck and grind, gently my teeth, then i gently touch her ears like if i am doing her clit, as i suspected in the bold face, it was a fast song, so yes you do that... About pulling the hair, i go to a corner or bar, turn her around like in doggy bend her down like a cop doing cavity search, pull her hair, while at the same time banging her with clothes and spanking.....Why i originally had a disagreement with you is to be uncalibrated in the music, and be to gimmicky, that is how your original post came across, now that you explained it better, is good. But sometimes you have no choice, sometimes i am dancing all sexual and the girl is into me, and the dj, will fuck everything up putting a fast or crazy song, that get the women out of state...
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