Whats up, im 16 and a half years old and im here in seek of some advice.
Alright heres the story, wall of text coming.
So this girl I know, lets call her jane. Ive known her since 8th grade and she always threw me IoI's and stuff, but was always more of a tease. i decided not to get hooked on her, so I gamed alot of other girls. In 9th grade she went to the same school as me after middle school (she went there pretty much just because i did) and we were really good friends. I wouldnt call myself friendzoned with her at the time, but i didnt have interest in persueing her at the time. She would always hangout with me, like all the time. We would hangout afterschool smoke, ive drank with her, and yeah. Like I said even in 9th grade I was well aware of kino/ acting alpha/ some nlp techniques. I know my way out of friendzone, but about half way threw the year I noticed I really liked her. But the thing is I think she liked me that beginning of the year I wasnt interested in her, and then when I was attracted/ interested in her, her attraction /interest faded in me. She was attracted to me, i could tell just how she made eye contact with me and such before. I did fuck up a couple of times trying to get at her though, because I was a inexperianced 9th grader and didnt know what to do. I think I got really close to a k close with her once or twice, but fucked it up. I would always kino her too, and I was usually pretty alpha around her also. So about half way through the year the school was giving me problems so I left to another and she wanted to go too, so she did. I saw her a couple times there but she started talking to me less and less, even though i talked to her almost everyday for 6 months. When I switched to that school I know i wanted to go out with her, but I was in a wierd situation where it wouldve been wierd to ask her out in person. I really wanted to fucking ask her out in person, but the situation we were in just wasnt normal. So pussy ass 9th grade me texts her if she wants to go out, telling her how I liked her alot and shes a girl Id like to go out with and not just to fuck her. She replied instantly "really???" I know know if I kept pushing her I coulda got her to go out with me. She told me she wasnt for a relationship at the time, so I was like whatever. After that she never hit me up again, until a month or two after she invited me to her house to drink and sleepover but I couldnt becuase I didnt drive then but I sure as fuck wouldve (the biggest oppurtunity I think I fucked up.)
She sees me as high value, but after that we stopped talking. Literally, everyday since then she has gone through my mind. Ive met lots of girls, been with other girls, fucked other girls, but in the end my mind stills wants her. She has the same exact hobbies as me, listens to same music as me, she even fucking talks like me. Janes pretty much my dream girl
but the problem is, i havent even seen her in a year. I deleted her off facebook randomly not long ago because i wanted to get over her, but then she added me on another account she has. Then I messaged her that we should hangout sometime, she said yeah. The thing is, she hit me up but at the time she hit me up she said she was by my house and we should hangout, but I was at the gym when she hit me up
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Since that, ive put a few things up on facebook and shes liked a couple of my things, but other then that, no other iois. I did call her once because I went to the beach and she leaves there so I thought fuck it lets see. I called her and said "yo jane" she was like "whos this" I was like "alex!" she was like "alex who"? then me "the coolest alex you know" then she was like ohhh alexx!!!!! hey!!!! I asked her to hangout becuase i was at the beach, she sounded down but I couldnt because I had to leave within the next hour, so she was like alright what about tommorow? i might be going to your neighberhood" there I was thinking sick, this is going good. I was like yeah, lets do it hit me up tommorow and she was like alright. She never hit me up, and now im here and I dont know who to do.
Ive also met her mom too, but didnt really introduce myself well since I was a 9th grader and didnt know whats up.
I still game other girls, but i fucking want her I dont feel like ive ever found a better match plus shes sexy as fuck. also shes a friend from a childhood, that just makes it way more special. Plus every time we talked we would just keep talking and talking and never go quiet. . Any advice on gaming her again or contacting her? I just feel stuck.
CHAT