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Hey guys, I'm new to pick up and working on my AA and game.
Regardless, I got this girl number without talking for more than two minutes.
What happen: At a club and there were a group of sorority girls taking pictures together, so I asked to hop in one. The girl I asked jumped at the question and I got a nice ass photo with her kissing me and 4 other sorority girls surrounding me.
Then I told her to send me the picture, gave my number and she sent her name and the picture, thus, I got her number.
Right after, I just kinda 180'd cause I didn't know how to progress.
Should I text her? And what? It's kinda weird because I didn't talk much.
Yeah, you see, it's kind of weird because you didn't talk much. She seems like a stranger and you seem like a stranger. You didn't build rapport. Read my thread called Flakes, friend zone, and phone numbers.
There's a high chance she'll flake here because you didn't bother to get to know her. To her, you're just a guy she felt attraction for. If you do text her, stay humble, boring, and social. "Hey (first name), we barely got to talk but you reminded me of a color last night." Seems weird but if you say she seemed interesting or cool, it can still be overpowering. You want to get in her head, take it slow. What color? Guess. Red? Yellow? No, blue. Why blue? Because blue is a very calm, but upbeat color. You seemed confident the other day. (The other day instead of the other night). When you mention the other night, sounds like you two fucked, etc. It makes her really remember how you were just a guy she was attracted to but didn't bother to get to know her. Keep it light.
CHAT
