I went out to date with a girl from my childhood (also from my home village). This was for a serious relationship. There are pretty much reasons for both of us to be a couple which I cannot mention the details (because it will be boring for you) but at the end she has rejected me for who knows why. Told me that she don't want to see me, it was few months ago. Since then I've gained weight (I was underweight). This weekend I'll go to my hometown for "a day before wedding kinda celebration" of our mutual friend. There will be our mutual friends but not herself. I think that she will get a bit jealous (I hope, with good intentions) that I'm having fun there with her best friends. Now, should I mention to her best friend (and at the same time one of my closest friends) that we went out to dates and it didn't end as I expected? So that this mutual close friend will go to Facebook/Gmail chat and tell her "oh, I've heared that you both went on dates and it didn't end well, I wish you both were a couple bkah blah" something like that... or I should not mention at all?

No.

Why? What are the consequences?

It won't work out the way you want it.

She's probably just not into you and therefore won't get jealous.

She's not feeling you the way you're feeling her for whatever reason. Why even play games like that, moreso with somebody who clearly isn't interested. Do you honestly think that by telling her she'll miraculously jump into your lap? You're dreaming. Find other women stop wasting energy on this one.

I'm not into lap thing. I'm not looking for fwb material. Just a "let's go out on a date, and try it".

It will be enough if she starts to think "okay, may be I should give a try".

If she was some girl that I've met randomly I wouldn't spend any effort again on her. Just because she is someone close, I want to be sure that I've done whatever I can, and if she still thinks that I'm worthless then of course it means over.

Playing stupid games is never a good way to go about things in my humble opinion.

Using jealousy would only work if she had some sort of interest in you already. If she sees you with another girl she will probably be even less likely to chase you.

By "making her jealous" I mean having nice time with her friends (in the same time they are my best friends (males and females). I won't be there with other girls.

I think this will show some things that was I unable to show her at first: that I can have nice time, that I can care about my friends (a long way to there just to see them), that I look a little more fit, that I'm accepted by many girls (not in a sexual way, they are my childhood friends and some relatives), I'm being respected by many male friends, I have time to spend for myself out of work, I was able to go there which means I have no problem with money. Plus, I'll go to see my couisins' new borns: that I like children.

As if "everybody loves me, but not you".

Well, my Facebook page was empty, but from now on it will be filled by my friends.

My question was "should I ever mention that I have dated with her?" to her best friend.

If she is her best friend then she probably already knows that it didn't end well and she probably knows why as well.

Nope. Strange but she implied that she didn't mention. Probably because she doesn't want to be seen as easy.

lmao girls tell each other everything

why the fuck did you even make this thread

the solution is simple

GO FUCKING GET MORE GIRLS

Bu not in this case.

go get more girls

Yes, in this case.

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