I was with this girl 5 yrs i was her first, excellent relationship, communication, excellent sex. Then she moves away for few months her parents want to break it off bcz of religion. 2mnths later she says she needs to meet new ppl, and 1 week later starts talking to a guy and sleeps with him a bunch of times, and tells me about it on top of it, because according to her she wants to be honest..

What the F am i suppose to do, she told me today they broke up, and she miss me, I had done alot in this period but lied and narrowed it to 2 lays.
Ok so i want her back , but she slipped and said that guy ended it and she ddnt mind their relationship and ddnt want it to end. She says she needs to think before talking back to me.. What am i suppose to do I am in miami shes in detroit, i need to win this girl back... Also ever since we broke up she had a very bad friend who she got rid of her today as well..

Please advise, also I am not feeling so secure about her slamming me with the details about her mnth long fling

You don't need to win her back. Leave her in Detroit and don't look back man. If you would like to feel secure again, get out sarging in Miami. she is not worth your time, effort, or heartache. You are above her. Remember that. Years down the road when you are happy, she will have nothing but regret for what she did to you. You deserve better then her. Keep your head up friend, and go find someone that is worthy of you.

As above.

It seems like she got bored of you, maybe because you got too comfortable or maybe because she wanted to experiment. If she had only slept with you then it must have been appealing to go out with her "bad" friend and have the fun she was.

Bottom line is now she has broken the taboo of dumping you for a while to go fuck around with her mates. Plus it looks like she is using you as a rebound, if she got dumped then for sure she wants the guy back if only to dump him and be in control.

Move on, go through the tough spots with mates, fuck many beautiful women and have fun. You are now free from shackles, have you ever heard the expression, "a pram in the hallway destroys creativity"? You don't need women to feel good except in bed/car bonnet/back seat/etc. Save that shit for when you cant be arsed to go out and chase skirt. Be young and have fun

Best of luck bro

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