So I'm talking to this girl via messenger and it's difficult to tell if I'm getting IOI's or if I'm building attraction right. Pro: I messaged her at night and she stopped responding. The next day she answered back. I didn't respond though, I'm going to wait a day and talk back.

But I'm having trouble figuring out my goals in the conversation. My main goal is just be Fun. But I can't figure out ways to be flirty, or to make her attracted to me.

What could I say, to make her interested in me? I WANT TO MAKE HER MY GF HOW DO I SHOW HER I DON'T WANT TO JUST BE FRIENDS.

So far my plan is to disqualify myself then qualify her.

Example:
Me: Ya, I'm starting a career as a musician and I've been really busy with that. I don't even have time for a girlfriend... So sry things cant work out between us xD

So tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to get to know you better?

Even if you manage to build attraction online, if you can't back it up in person when you meet then you've wasted your time and energy: there's no point at all. Moreover, if spending all of your time using IM you're not using your time to practice face-to-face skills and so this is quite likely to happen.

If you're not going out then ditch the IM: chances are that you're wasting your time.

"So far my plan is to disqualify myself then qualify her.

Example:
Me: Ya, I'm starting a career as a musician and I've been really busy with that. I don't even have time for a girlfriend... So sry things cant work out between us xD

So tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to get to know you better?"

Any era's in my game plan?
Btw is there like a time limit on girls on how long you got to show her you wanna go out before you become "friends."
I feel I'm running out of time, I can't figure out how to display to her my attraction (obviously the PU way).

Dude, to be able to properly qualify her she must first be interested. There is no point in qualifying someone who's not really interested, as she won't see the point to invest.

Build attraction through teases and disqualifications first. Be sexual in your messages to avoid the friendzone.

Cold read her (just guess random shit) and once she's hooked (if she ever is) get her number and ask her out. She either will or she won't.

you have alot of going out and trying to bang girls to do, there is no ''secret way'' to get that one special girl to fuck you

if you suck with girls, then you need to practise on many girls, confidence isn't built in a day with a one liner... doesn't work that way

figure out a game plan, follow the game plan, execute the game plan, review on how it went, and improve the process, rinse and repeat as much as nessicary until your desired results are achieved

You can't really build attraction if your not face to face. There are too many variables that make it very difficult to build attraction if it isn't in person. Try to get her to agree to go out, that is the only way of testing to see if she is attracted. If she agrees to go out then it means green light, if she gives ANY type of excuse then delete her number and move on.

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Be honest and upfront and express your intentions very clearly.

There are some attraction techniques you can use but ultimately you need to build your value as a man : there are no shortcuts.

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The more energy you expend analyzing, planning, and analyzing more the lower the value you project relative to her.