Guys,

I had a "date" with a girl last night. She came to my place for drinks & I cooked a meal for us (she subsequently told me that the food and wine selections I made were "amazing" and that we need to "repeat the dinner" as she had to rush off early, which I knew would be the case beforehand).

However, the situation might potentially be more complicated! I know that lots of people put bullshit statuses on Facebook etc. This particular girl is apparently "engaged" to some guy who lives in a different country. I saw this prior to our date, but thought it probably wasn't worth thinking too much about, so quite honestly, I just decided not to worry about it!

I asked her about this situation today, and she basically said that they're kind of together, but she didn't seem too sure where it was heading. She said - and I quote - "I would never cheat, but I love flirting!" Then I asked her if she thought kissing was cheating, and she asked "what do you think?" (With a smile). So I just said no and played along....

So my question is : Is it even worth trying anything with her? She says she wants us to hang out again, she had fun, etc. BUT she's just such a flirt, and I'm 99% certain that I won't be able to fuck her. A kiss is the absolute most I can aim for, and even that seems unlikely at this stage!

Don't worry, I'm definitely NOT developing feelings for this girl! I just think she's hot and I want to try to fuck her! But is it worth it?

Any feedback would be great!

Cheers guys!

Pay attention to her actions NOT her words.

Isolate, escalate, kino = sex

She doesn't think a blow job, or fucking is cheating either! LOL

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Girls will try to pul you into drama when they get bored - its the whole emotional rollercoaster thing. You only get sucked in if you play her game. Simply ignore it, and as the other poster suggested continue gaming her unabated.

Cheers fellas! Advice gratefully received! Game on!

Why put so much effort into this one girl? You made her dinner!? WTF? Surreal to me

She has a fiancee.. there are plenty of hot chicks clucking around wanting your manhood, give it to one of them and don't be the one fuck up another mans relationship.

Obviously I am against fucking thy neighbour's wife lol

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"Lets get out of here..."

If a girl is giving random guys the impression that things aren't going well with her bf or husband, then imagine the impression he is getting? Guys will cheat on their women even when the woman is nice and faithful to them. Imagine when the woman is treating him bad, not feeling him, and running around on dates with other guys? Whoever that guy is I bet he's cheating on her, or he's just a hapless chump who has no clue or direction in life. Either way, that's not your problem. I say go for the fuck close. They say not to do this, but have her talk about that guy and start finding out all the things wrong with him and have her focus on how much she doesn't like him and all his bad traits. Then she'll feel justified in fucking you behind his back.

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