hi, i m 5'8 and roughly 30% of chicks are 1-3 inches taller than me in clubs in their heels. I never felt like this way but 2 weeks ago a girl told me that she would rate me 7.5 just because of my height. I am very comfortable with my height and body.


however, i was wondering about shoe lifts, will it help my game in field. has anyone tried them? how comfortable are they and if they are which ones are best. Its not a neccesity for me but just for the sake of maxing my game i want to know. Thanks for your answers.
and yeah, i m not trying to win that one particular girl, she is already won over.

im 5'9 and i feel you... but dont show that it effects you and show your confident with your height

^ Bump. I couldn't have said it beter myself, I would just add that if a girl says something negative about your height, find something to playfully tease her about as well.

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Im 5 foot 6 and fucking hate it..

However, a girl recently said to me ' I don't usually date short guys'. to which I replied, 'I don't usually date ugly girls, but I thought I would give you a chance'..

Cut a long story short.. I pulled her. lol

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I'm average tall, and I feel short sometimes around some people. As the guys above said, just stay strong and if a girl hits you on your height, 9 times out of 10 she'll be in heels, so just ask her how comfortable she is with her height.

Height helps, no doubt about it. So does the right eyebrows, nose, eyes, lips, shoulders, jaw, skin, hair, hand size, chest, and a million other little physical things we can't change without surgery. It's not worth getting too hung up on it, if you can make a change the helps, great...if you can't, don't worry about it. That simple.

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I'd say I don't tend to be attracted to guys shorter than me. Since I am all of 5'0" that's a rare case for me to even find one. But I think if a guy had the right shit going for him the height would hardly be a factor.

If shoe lifts would make you feel more confident while out there, then by all means use them because your game will be better. But really, don't let your height slow you down too much.

Just to play devils advocate...I'm 6ft2 and I suffered a very bad back injury a few years ago that nearly led me to be paralised. I'm fit and healthy now but sometimes my back will still cramp up. For this reason I won't date short girls and usually stay at the 5ft8 height range as they are about 6ft with heals on.

Regarding being shorter? Well I've a load of guy friends who are 5ft6 ect who have no problem with girls! Girls will look past that if your confidence is good!

I'd have a few cheeky negs memorised for the bitchy girls who bring it up!

Yea, every girl that has ever said to my face "You're too short", has slept with me.

Soooo.

I've never let it be an issue.

You can even make jokes about it - girls seem to love that. Granted, I'm not -that- short (5'7" or 5'8"), so I don't know how it is for guys who are much shorter than I am.

I've slept with girls between the heights of 5'0" and 6'2".

If you have a good personality, a girl will get past the shortness.

Fact she still spoke with you means your height meant shit.

Look, some chicks will have silly requirements like the guy has to have blue eyes, or a roman nose, etc.. Of those chicks, only a very tiny minority will actually stay rigid to these requirements, but in reality most girls and their socalled requirements are bluffs which can easily be overcome by showing you're disaffected by her qualification/standard and continuing with building attraction (showing you're non reactive to her requirement does in fact build attraction more often than not).

I've had chicks who told me they date guys over 6 feet only (I'm 5'9), and once I know I have them hooked I'll break their balls about it "Hmmm...I thought you only dated guys over 6 feet!", one girl actually reached for my dick saying "I know but you make up for it in other ways".

In short, perceive her standard as a shit test because essentially that's exactly what it is. Treat it no differently.

Its only a limitation if you buy into it.

Nuff said.

Game is additive: it'll count against you but there's no need for it to be a deal-breaker provided that you've got plenty of other things going for you. I'm pretty sure that (the Artist Formerly known as) Prince would have gotten laid (and still be able to radiate sex appeal) even if he wasn't a celebrity. Just keep in good shape: extra weight tends to show up more on shorter guys and it'll make you feel bad (possibly the most serious consequence) and might not win you as many points on physical attraction with her (I should know: in my teens I was a relatively short and rather fat guy but I'm in good shape now and my life improved dramatically after loosing the weight). Tom Cruise is short but a lot of girls still find him physically attractive: height is important, but it's not the only factor in physical attractiveness.

BTW, ever noticed how a girl looses all of her initial (physical) attraction to a tall guy as soon as he shows signs of neediness or weakness? Blew my mind when I noticed it.

Not adding anything interesting to this thread, but I am exactly in the opposite situation. I am 6ft4 and attracted to shorter girls.

HAHA!

Seriously, my last 3 girlfriends were 5ft1, 4ft11 and 4ft10.

They kept commenting on my height and sometime it would even bother me!

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I'm 6'0 and my ex was 6'0. Before we started officially dating, it was kinda sketch going out with her since she always wore some kind of a heel. I tried wearing dress shoes with taller heels, which was actually pretty chill even if I didn't date her. Try some out.

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What's so bad about a rating of 7.5? You say you're comfortable with your height and appearance, yet you feel the need to make this topic. So are you really comfortable with it?

If she was a target you're after, her statement sounds like a shit test and you failed.

Thank you guys for your immense support. i knew but i just wanted to confirm that confidence is what really matters. About that girl, i have already closed her in every way possible and she likes my sense of humor, so i dont care abt my height as far as she is concerned. this actually came out when we were playing with an app on her phone and we rated each other. once again, thanks for helping in clearing up my mind. i can go back to game peacefully now.