How should I go about this ? Im texting this girl the last few days . Attraction built up with push pull and all of that going great. Tonight I just pissed her off being too cocky maybe a neg or 2 too far....my quedtion is ,,, how do you show them your not such a cocky fuck all the time without starting to sound like a pussy and loose my frame ...

If you could tell us the end of your conversation, the part where you were too cocky, that would help putting things in perspective.

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Alea iacta est - The die has been cast

Yeah in what context. I would do a freeze an not text for a bit. Do not wuss out an say your sorry.

Last night I also did some shit. I had my girl that lives 6 hours away call me up. She was being kinda provocative so I just jumped in the dirty dirty phone sex. Made her cum hard in 10 minuets. Then a little pillow talk but I wasn't in to it. This is where it gets awesome. She goes on an on an on. BTW shes BI and was like I just want a girl who's DTF and not one that wants to get married and talk on an on an on.... I was like I so know what you mean i've been trying to get off the phone with you for 10 minuets now. She was like fuck you and hung up. I was laughing so hard it was almost impossible to text. "Night Kitten I still love ya." I went to bed. Next morning were like 3 text about me an how great I am.

Sorry to thread jack.

If I was to go back in time before PUA I would of called her right back and been like sorry. Hell I would of not even said the greatest thing I said an she would of not been so keyed up on me. Girls like it when you can be sarcastic and witty. Its a shit test when they want you to back down. Don't and reap the rewards. If she can't hang then shes not worth your time. I love it more when a girl punches back and is fast on the retort and banter.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Again, this validates my theory that all around, a nice guy approach is better than CF, sarcastic, or negging. Dont' apologize, true. But maybe just strike up conversation again and be nice the whole time. Not gushing, and not needy or clingy. Just avoid doing the things you did before which got you in the dog house.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Tried a similiar situation yesterday. I negged her a bit to much, and she tried to bust my balls, calling me asshole and such. What i did was quite genius if i say so myself.

She (rb(Random babe)) sends something like this.

Rb: "Why are you always that much of an asshole, always bitching and being funny in a lousy way"
Me: "Sorry, i thought you could handle it (try to insert another qualification here. Something like: "Must have misjudged you). I can turn it down a notch if you cant handle it"
She then answered: I guess i can

I then continued the conversation, and she sent more than plenty signals. Unfortunately he wasnt up for the meeting and i abandoned her...

Always remember this: There are plenty more of chicks to game, and in the end; win or loose, you still learned something. Thats what matters!