Hi Guys,

I recently came back from a EuroTrip and was amazed at how much easier it was to strike up a conversation with a random girl/tourist. Especially in tourist locations or in Airports. I got a few number closes and a tonne of facebook closes if you can call it that. But my question is how do you escalate further or work towards some goal, if the girl is living overseas, either in Vietnam, or Amsterdam, or maybe in Philadelphia. I am from South Africa BTW. There has to be a goal to work towards, but if she in a different country, do you still try to keep the interactions going, so she remembers you? let me know your thoughts. Would really like to keep in contact with these girls.

Regards
K9P

Sure you can send them a message every now and then, flirt a little and suggest you should meet-up some time.

If either of you travel a lot, which is clearly quite likely, you can plan your travels, to some extent, around where these girls live. As long as you have built-up some sexual tension and comfort to keep reminding her of your initial encounter, she will be more than willing to recreate the excitement of her travels, either by hosting you or coming to visit you.

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Chop wood, carry water,

Yo first of all well done it sounds like you had fun

I would throw them a message every now and then, maybe not the numbers but the facebooks, it seems more personal sharing pictures and commenting on each others status' etc. I wouldn't make it sexual either, friendzone them and use them as a global network who, if you nurture right you can use on future trips or holidays. Locals always know the best spots plus they will have friends who you can fuck if you do ever visit in the future.

Best of luck

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"Lets get out of here..."

When travelling its all about aiming for the same night lays.

Everyone knows they will probably never see each other again, and because the girls are away from their own social circles and the people who will judge what they do (call her a slut etc) they will put out a lot more.

I asked a few different girls when I was travelling how many guys they'd slept with on their trips and the answer was around 6 on average. Thats a lot more than theyd confess to if they were back home.

Sure you can keep talking to them if you become attached, I did just that and ended up seeing that one particular girl 3 more times on separate occasions afterwards despite living on other sides of the world.

But unless you made a significant bond with her, I doubt much will come from a facebook close while overseas...

You're honestly better off directing your focus elsewhere to something more likely.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

Thanks Guys, this is solid advice with two perspectives. Next time i travel, i will definitely aim for a day 2 to escalate further. On the plane to London, I met a girl from Pakistan, awesome girl. I was supposed to meet up in London, but had trouble with the number lol. Prefix or something. And I SPAM closed a Ukranian girl in Amsterdam. She was very friendly. But i'm just going to go with the mindset of no expectations. She and her friends were keen to visit South Africa, or vice versa. I could visit them in Ukraine. So i could work towards that goal. Apart from that, the other facebook closes i will definitely utilize as networking opportunities. I'm trying to get a day 2 with a South African girl i met. Although not really interested, but utilizing it as a networking opportunity.

I've done 2 contiki trips so far, and found the social dynamics quite interesting. Most people travel single. And there is usually 1 or 2 guys you have to fight off, as they AMOG you. I've seen 2 of my contiki roommates 2 years ago close girls. Maybe not quality, but a close nonetheless. But i've noticed the duration of the contiki is also very important to build that required comfort. For a 2 week trip, on the last night, everybody hooks up. But for a 8 day trip, the girls are a bit reluctant. Have any of you guys been on a contiki, I would be curious to see your perspective.

I love contikis! me and my best mate done a contiki last year. It was great fun, I cant wait to do another. Between us we slept with 6 different girls from the tour group.

I noticed how everyone establishes a pecking order. You can see the alpha male group form, and the queen bee group come together. Mine was only a 16 day trip but it was still awesome. Everyone is friends at the end.

Our tour guide was awesome too. He helped us get laid alot by telling everyone to pre drink in my mates& I's room. That way we had all the hot girls drinking in our room each night before we went out. So they ended up coming back with us too

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he