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SaySomething
PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 6:13 pm 
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Hi guys.

Currently gaming a girl I briefly kissed on Friday night, basically walking past the bar with my wing and saw her staring, doubled back, went straight in all guns blazing, loads of kino and EC, we kissed after about a minute and a half, pulled back after a few seconds for more EC and her cockblocks descended after which she became too shy to do anything else. N-closed her and left within another minute. I'd say HB6.

Below is the text conversation I've had with her since then and timings, I'd like some thoughts, particularly on how well I've done so far, and how I can continue the meetup without AFC'ing.
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--Saturday, 20:00 - 21:30--
Her: Omg looool you tried to kiss me again at the bar! x

Me: Oh yeah, hazy night. I remember now, you missed out.

Her: Loool silly I dont think I did ;P x

Me: I'm thinking I need to prove it to you. I'll call you in the week and we'll get acquainted.

--Monday--
I decided against calling, as I had barely spoken to her at all in the club. Used the STOP! game...

Her: Criiiiiiinge ahaha x

Me: Are you the type of person that can take a sincere compliment without being embarassed?

Her: Erm I suppose lol x

Me: That's good so am I. Shoot!

Her: Loooooool funny man aye?

Me: Was that the compliment?

Her: No, no it wasnt.

Me: Still waiting then ;)

Her: LOL and I'm still thinking

--Tuesday--

Me: You are a very slow thinker.

Her: Pahahaha. Soz, and erm, your eyes are like, deep seas I get lost in? Or something like that x

Me: That's more like it, never seen a green sea though. Whats your schedule like next week?

Her: I remembered green or blue cut me some slack! Aaand erm, getting stuff ready for uni, then leaving Saturday, you?

Me: Visitng uni mate this wk so day off Friday. I'll be in London for a bit, come meet me for a drink.

Her: Hmm I'll consider it :)

Me: Consider? I'm giving you a chance to jump on what you missed out on on Friday, I'm a busy man so I'll flake if you cant commit.

Her: What I missed out on!? The cheek of it. And i'm no good at commitment, apologies.

Me: Hey, look, I'm just saying I'm a lot of fun to be with. You seem pretty confident as well, we're both free, what's there to lose. And I'm fucking hot as well ;)

Her: Oooh cocky! I'll think about it!
I stop replying here, it's been about 2 hours since the last text, didnt want to accidentally start AFCing. Advice?[/quote]
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 11:24 am 
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hmmm, i've been a texting train wreck so my judgment is not really relevant but it sounds like you are on point, well-calibrated cocky-funny. i wonder if it some point it is a good idea to try to find something specific out about her, a flash of personal curiosity about her

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:15 pm 
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you were doing great until the very end. the sincere compliment thing you did was awesome and ive never seen it before. im def stealing it!

however the last few messages became a tad bit needy and tryhard.
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Me: Consider? I'm giving you a chance to jump on what you missed out on on Friday, I'm a busy man so I'll flake if you cant commit.

Her: What I missed out on!? The cheek of it. And i'm no good at commitment, apologies.

Me: Hey, look, I'm just saying I'm a lot of fun to be with. You seem pretty confident as well, we're both free, what's there to lose. And I'm fucking hot as well

youre just trying a little too hard to convince her that youre fun and busy. i think id choose my words differently. instead of the whole 'im a busy man' line id just say something like "lmk soon cuz my friend sarah wants me to come over and watch breaking bad that night" or whatever.

also you probably should have cut it off after the whole 'im no good at commitment' thing. when a girl says something like that after i ask her out im usually not replying until either she reopens me or maybe a day or two later if she hasnt yet. im certainly not going out of my way to convince her she should hang out with me.

its these little types of inconsistencies that turns girls off to guys. like youre the fun, busy, carefree, playful, cocky/funny guy but then when she doesnt wanna go out with you try too hard and care too much. think about it: would that guy care if a girl didnt wanna meet up? no hed just move on and so something else fun instead.

ftr im not saying youre there yet or youve become incongruent, but just something to keep in the back of your mind.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:48 pm 
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You started off really good, fun, playful etc. But at the end you start to look more needy. There are few problems I want to point out

1) You should have called her. If you would you all these "I'll consider it" would be avoided.
2) You didn't tell her why you want to meet her and you didn't give her a reason to meet you. Maybe that's because you don't want to hurt your ego and make it seem like you like her which I used to do long time ago because it looks like your needy. This is wrong. You should tell her "I know you like me and I like you so lets meet up for coffee and find out more about each other" or something like this. Girls appreciate when guys actually state their intentions instead of being chodes and hiding things.
3)Word of advice never mention the word commit to a girl you just met they hate that word. To them it resembles limitation like a "wife commits" to a husband.
4)If a girl senses her meeting up with you has effect on you at all she right away spots you. Think about it. If you would have 30 girls wanting to meet up with you that day would you even care or say anything of what you have said to her. No, you wouldn't. So try to act the same as if you would have 30 girls waiting for a date.

But overall you're on the right track.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 11:12 pm 
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Cheers for the help guys, totally see where you're coming from with the end part. Will take it on board for the next lucky lady!
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Her: What I missed out on!? The cheek of it. And i'm no good at commitment, apologies.

Me: Hey, look, I'm just saying I'm a lot of fun to be with. You seem pretty confident as well, we're both free, what's there to lose. And I'm fucking hot as well ;)

Her: Oooh cocky! I'll think about it!
I'm with you up until this point. What I like, is she remembered your first text message where you tell her she missed out. That was the funnest part.

The tricky part is that it seems you are trying too hard or pushing too hard to meet with her. I think this is a DLV.

I would think to lay off with the pressure because it might come across as desperate. However, I am a newbie and I await other responses.
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 5:30 am 
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ramp it up make some sexual misinterpretation

actually get her out dont stay in this perpetual zone as the funny guy it wont last (she'll grow tired and move on to the next 'entertainer').
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