I hear what you saying.. But my experience with walking-dates is that it´s very hard to flirt and kino. It´s just easy to talk. Also I got the feeling that it was because she wanted to be able to get away easily (she lives close to my workplace and I´m meeting her after I finish working).

Can´t really invite her to my place but I´ll check logistics for her place, if she wants to go to a party later that night and what her plans for saturday are (I got the house for myself then).

Man I´m feeling needy about this but at least shes in to me. I talked with one of her friends today and she said that is girl is a very good girl (which most of my girls are)

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So you're asking her friends about her? Honestly you need to step back and evaluate why you're so needy about this situation.

No I asked one of my friends who know her. Dude drop the attitde, it's okay to be nervous

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Yea it sounds like youre really into her, (dare i say it) One-itis. Hence prob the nervousness - almost seems like you would really like her as an LTR (hey, thats not a bad thing)

From an outside POV: From the texting, I get the impression that she wants alone time with you. To me, thats green light to get into her personal space (hand holding, neck rub etc) Walking dates are actually quite easy compared to other settings. Try thumb wrestling as a joke, thats always a good transition for me into more escalated kino.

if im right and youre really into her, its not about getting laid or a competition - just try to open up and really get to know her. it should help.

But hey, so far all signs point to her liking you so remember that when you get nervous.

Theurbanwarrior, thank you for your insights. I think you are right, I´m kind of in to her. I didn´t pick up any girls when I partied last night (kind of frustrating though). A hot girl from school also wrote to me when I got home and we chatted for like an hour but I didn´t feel that attracted to the opportunity. I wouldn´t call it oneitis since she is probably equally in to me though. It is also important that I am framing this as a ltr. If I just wanted to get laid, I would be speaking to her in a different way. I think that is why you guys wrote that I´m needy and what not.

Here is the repport of the date yesterday by the way:

We met at the spot we had decided upon, she was on time. We had talked a bit earlier that day and since she had a foot-ache we went on the original coffe-shop date. It was a little stiff for the first three minutes but then I opened her up by using some of our inside-jokes I created when we met.

The idiot that I am didn´t think about that this was the towns most popular coffe-shop at Friday when everyone gets of from work so the place was packed and we got really bad places to sit.

Didn´t really matter though, we talked for about 25 minutes mostly about our lives, friends and ambitions. Then her parents called and told her she had to go home because her little sister was having a panic attack. She told the parents to call the baby sitter. Then we talked about baby sisters for a bit I think (we had sisters the same age) but then her parents called again and said that the baby sitter couldn´t make it any time soon. The girl then appologized some times to me but I said it was OK and gestured for her to kiss me. She didn´t hesitate.

Her place was on the way home for me so we walked for about 15 minutes, I put in a lot of humour here to add for more inside jokes and fun vibes. We held hands, kissed a couple of times on the way and then made out before parting.

I´d say she´s an 8 or 8.5 depending on how she looks naked. Hot petite, cute look . a "kind girl". I would think that she was shy but whenever I was silence I managed to get start some new topic ( a trick I use so it doesn´t look like I´m chasing).

Next step is setting up a second date.

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Update:

The day after the date the girl waited three hours to answer the text I sent her and doesn´t show any interest at all.. This made me upset so when I went out that night I slept with a virgin and then got arrested by when I drove home drunk on my moped.

Should´ve listened to you guys and not invested in a girl I barely know.

At least this girl I met at the party has some potential.

I´m not sure what I want to do with my dating life right now. Maybe I should grow up.

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You are doing pretty good man. I think you are going to be in a relationship with her, i.e if you don't act too needy. Be a man, take control of the situation. Dictate terms to her, she will bend. You lead the way, she will follow.

Turns out the girl got back with her X later in the evening after our date at some party.

Right now I´m gaming two girls.

Short hooot
One I used to work with who I have a great connection with (extremely deep, we can tell each other everything). There are some problems though: She might still have a BF. She lives some bit away and she has a dark past. By no means GF-material. Awesome and hot in every other aspect though. We are meeting on Friday at four to catch up. She keeps calling me honey, hottie and love etc. on our chats. Either she still loves me as a friend or wants me.

Tall thin with ass.
Met this girl at school yesterday. There was some activity day designed for people to get to know everyone. I talked to this 2 years younger girl who just started in the school. We baked cake and did ton of other stuff for about 3-4 hours (mostly alone). I´ve never escalated at school or work before but we did some hand holding (secretly though because I didn´t know how she would react if we did it openly). The most aggresive kino I did was I leaned my head against her hip and held the inside of her thighs (when I was sitting next to her standing). Later in the night I added her FB and we had some convo. She wrote longer messages and took around 4 min to answer. It vaguely ended with us meeting again sometime to party or bake a cake. This girl doesn´t go out and party much and doesn´t have much experience. That's a plus for me. Also I´m kind of social proofed since I´m older while I at the same time know some of the "cool popular" girls from her last school.

I have until the 16th of November to find a gf. It´s still scary though

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