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Actually, the guy above me is wrong. If you're comfortable with talking to one girl a night, do everything you can to talk to more than one girl a night. Growth is always done outside the comfort zone, NEVER in comfort. That's why most guys never get really really good, you can't reach an elite level by always just doing the small approaches and living in the comfort all of your life. Go out at least 2 times a week and push yourself to the fucking limit every time you go out. Don't procrastinate..you have to know how bad you want this and just push till you fucking fall off the stairs man..like really just massive action and no holding back!
PAIN IS NECESSARY. If you don't feel pain along the journey or don't feel uncomfortable when you go out, you're doing something wrong..you're not improving, but you're stagnating.
Well, you are sort of on the right track. The original poster doesn't have to go out 2 times a week. He is always "in". Day game, day game, and more day game. Once you extend your comfort zone and approach during the day, then night game is easier in my opinion. If you can game sober girls, then you can definitely game girls under the influence. So, in short, don't limit yourself to bars, clubs, or other nightlife activities. Throughout the day, you should be doing something you wouldn't normally do, in this case, talk to girls.
A tip on the pain, once you detach yourself from the outcome, it is so much more fun. Girls can pick up if you have a hidden agenda, but if you are just in the moment, the conversation flows naturally.
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