Here I am again. Needing a little advice from you guys.

So last week I posted a topic about escalating or playing hard to get with this girl I met on the bus and saw later on at a party. She somehow got my number, asked if we could chill; so we did. Last week we had a date that went great. Lots of talking, kino and it we both had a genuine nice time. Eventually K-closed her.

Now I might have been pushing a bit too much failing her shit-tests. She oughts to say thinks like: "I feel like hanging out with someone, I'm in need of a massage." Also she asked me several times to go with her to some parties she has planned. Now I see this as an invitation to ask her to go do something which I did but she flaked do to being busy.

Here is the question. What do I do? She is still giving me IoI's by starting up the conversations, telling me she feels like hanging out etc. Do I freeze her out a bit and hit her up in a week or so?

Also, she invited me to her b-day party in a few weeks. Should I cut down on the contact and hit her up then?

Gz

She is obviously interested in you, so my guess is that the only reason she flaked was because she actually were busy!

Since she keeps on telling you that she wants to hang out, she probably just don't want to take the initiative. So what good would a freeze out do at this point? Since she's allready in to you, I can't see how a freeze out now would do anything for better or worse.

If I were you, I would try and take her out again. If she flakes a second time, do a freeze out on her and hit it up again on her b-day.

Oke, thanks for your advice Dice!

So here is what I did. I have to be in her town tomorrow for a job interview so I told her: "Well, since I'm in town tomorrow why don't we meet up and go grab a drink somewhere?" She told me she has work till 3 to which I responded: "Great, I have my job interview at 2 so we can meet up after that."

Now she hasn't answered positive or negative, she just continued the conversation with a different subject. What to do?

Be normal mate..the girl was busy. No need to overcomplicate things. We have no idea what goes on in her life, maybe she really flaked you because she met another guy, who knows? You can't have control over everything..you just have control over your actions and your thoughts. The rest is up to her. If you're a high value alpha-male, she will want to see you..

Don't stress it.

Go to your interview, and call her when you're done!

There's really not much more to it, if she doesn't got the time, just freeze her out until her b-day