I go to the bars and clubs a lot with my friends in college. I have the confidence to talk to girls but nothing really ever ensues.

Let's start with clubs. My one friend goes up to a lot of HB's and will ask if they want to dance? Eventually he'll get to one that says okay and he'll dance with her for a bit until she gets bored and leaves. However when I'm at a club, I'll go up to a girl and say "Let's dance", I get ignored a lot and will respond with something like "whatever, just be boring" and I'll walk away. Am I doing something wrong? It doesn't make sense because I think I'm better looking yet he some how at least gets more girls.

And at bars I find I'll open a set, they'll display some interest but eventually I run out of things to say and resort to AFC stuff.

One last thing is I think I'm becoming overly confident to the point where I come off as a cocky prick. It's got to the point where I don't really care what girls think of me and I'm not sure if this is good or bad?

What seperates you from every other guy that comes up to these girls and asks them to dance??
You need to be interesting, memorable, and let them get comfortable with you before you start trying to close.
If you haven't gotten any IOI's from a girl, shes only going to be waiting for the song to end if shes' even nice enough to waste 3 minutes of her time dancing with you.

Well the thing about clubbing is it's hard to separate yourself from every other guy if your not a good dancer (which I'm not and it's difficult to improve).
How can I separate myself from most guys in a club other than improving my dance game?

Okay night club game is literally the easiest shit ever. Girls are so into that fun vibe with the music blasting that they're fucking up for anything, as long as the guy ain't a fucking chode.

Try this one night, I'm positive you will get better results.

Go up to a girl, put your arm around her and say "You're cute, what's your name?"

She will say her name, you tell her yours, and give her a playful kiss on the cheek, and say "Nice to meet you."

Now tell her, "You're my girlfriend for this song." And dance with her, fucking be physical, if you want her to grind on your cock, put her ass there.

Turn her around and makeout, then get her to grind on you again.

You can pull get the number, do whatever you want

This is a simple step by step method, but ANYTHING WILL WORK, as long as you're confident / physical.

I feel your right, club game is easy and maybe I'm overanalyzing this and should go up to girls and say stuff like that.

Next time I'm out at a club "I'll try the your cute, what's your name, your my girlfriend for this song bit, escalating bit". My only concern is grabbing her when approaching. Won't this make you look like a creep, I've never had much success approaching girls from behind, especially if I touch them when approaching from behind.

Also when I do this, suppose I get rejected by two girls in a row, before I even start dancing. Should I leave the dance floor and recoup or should I continue going from girl to girl to girl.

you're* don't approach from behind, if you have a weak stomach you may want to get more accustomed to touching by starting with low levels of compliance that you find comfortable and creating a linear compliance ladder for yourself to execute and practise
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here are a couple rsd alex infields where he gets physical fast, first one the girl just gets grabbed right off the street
what do you prefer?, time to put your learning boots on and try to have fun doing it the way you like the best

don't make the big mistake of ''trying to do it right'', you are starting out right now, you have a long way to go from to fucking girls on the first night, you want the ''right way'', when you haven't found your own way, instead of the right way, just realize you just don't have the know how right now, you are not sure of yourself and you care too much about what girls think, just try to have fun and do things that terrify you, try to improve and enjoy yourself instead of worrying about all the proper outer game bells and whistles, just stop worrying about getting laid, and have a good time at the club, hit on some girls, try to get them horny, and if shit is going well, do something you haven't tried before, who knows what that is?, who knows where it will lead to? just be ok with the unknown and embrace the fun of the night, start believing in yourself and find your own way,

maybe you haven't made out with a girl at a club, go for that, maybe you haven't asked a girl home before, go for that, maybe you are afraid to just put your arm around a girl, go for that, maybe you are afraid to just tell girls that you find them attractive or to openly flirt, go for that, maybe you are afraid to open mixed sets and go after girls in front of other guys, go for that, maybe you are nervous around girls cause you fear rejection and it turns you into a nervous wreck, get some of that in on purpose

just keep doing what scares you, eventually you will be able to do more and more without it feeling like some big huge deal, just keep practising man, don't put so much pressure on yourself to get laid, it's not going to happen when you can't relax and bring a fun time, if you are so worried about doing it right and not getting rejected, it will just put you inside your head and you won't be able to pull anything cool or bold off, you'll just have boring gay conversations that go no where cause you're too afraid to escalate on the off chances she rejects you... it's going to happen either way, high risk, high reward, low risk, low reward

GOOD LUCK