So guys, do you think it's better to text or to call when using a girl's # for the first time? Idk about you guys, but I think texting kindof sucks for trying to build a connection with someone.

Why does it matter? Do whatever the fuck you feel like doing.

I think it depends on how you got the number close. Were you able to build a good connection in person with her? Was it night or day game?

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If you think she might not remember your name or voice then text her.
If you know she will know your name, call her for sure! Personally, I hate texts and i only use them if i really have to

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

Do you have anything to talk about? Then call her. If you just want to drop her a hello, send her a text.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Idk, I guess it matters because getting a number and having it go to waste sucks. Also not knowing what to say sucks and when they all of a sudden stop responding bites too.

@KimPa
Yeah, I hate texts too. It seems like a good thing once you already know someone, but it doesn't give you much to work with.

@Dr. Jones
That sounds like a plan to me. What about someone who hasn't answered to several texts in a row and you stopped talking for a couple months. Could you use a phone call to revive it or do you think it is just dead?
@Edrev_
This is all college game in general. Most of these connections aren't too strong. This girl in particular was a hb8 from class. I think the interaction with her might be field report worthy. You see, this is an 8am class and I usually struggle to wake up and look my best, I usually just roll outta bed and put on a hat. lol Its not so bad because after the class I have an hour to go back to the dorm and clean up for the day. But yeah, I notice this hot spanish chick who always wears tight sporty clothes and I put off talking with her until I could actually look my best, you know. However, I see her one morning and I was like f*ck it, Im going to try a scroungy pickup and see if it works, which to my surprise it did. Talk about an AA buster!
I actually texted her on a sat about going over some notes on sunday like we planned. She didn't text back so the next day I call and left a voicemail. She returned my call almost immediately. Anyways today, we talked a bit in class but she seemed kind of distant to some degree, almost as if I might be giving her too much attention. I got this vibe, so when class was over I didn't waste any time leaving. I thought I'd go a bit cold on her and demonstrate the willingness to leave. Well here comes something cool... You see, I was a good distance down the hallway and hb8 was back there. Well I see another hb, a hb9 that I knew and I greeted her and she responded very warmly as she entered her class. Well hb8 saw this and then opened me and showed significantly more interest. I thought that was pretty cool.
However, even with this I still have little idea with what to text or whatever. I feel like she's out of my league. It's like there's a mental barrier there.

You're so beautiful, like a teddybear sliding down a rainbow into a pot of honey, but when the teddy bear comes out of the honey it isn't stickey, because you're so damn sexy, you make honey lose its stickiness.