| move, and do daygame if you hate the bar scene so much
also, you deal with girls that have ''a-d-d'' by entertaining yourself, for the most part girls are out for a fun night on the town or to get laid, not to have a conversation they don't care about with some guy they don't know, just de-tach completely from the idea of having sex with girls via conversation, or getting some girl to validate you and care about what you have to say, when she's eating out of the palm of your hand and loving your shit, that's when you switch into have a serious conversation and get to know her mode, but for a night out of fun, just have fun meeting and fucking the girls is secondary to mass enjoyment, use the girls to add to your entertainment instead of viewing them as a chance at sex, be willing to just destroy your chances and say and do anything that you think will be fun for yourself (yourself not her, she is so irrelivant to this equation), that and escalate, if she isn't going with the flow... meh time to move cause you are lacking girls in that town, the more fun you have, the more likely the people involved in the atomosphere around you will be able to join into your fun and it's a win/win for everyone
also some chick tells you to hold her purse, it's just shit test, obviously you don't want to hold some chicks purse, so just do what you want in that situation, be congruent with what you actually feel like doing instead of what she wants you to do, get her to at least do something for you as a trade if she wants it so bad and you are willing to do it, what ever floats your boat
a girl talks with you for two weeks, says shit like ''we should make out'' ''
I hate you'' etc. etc. then loses interest... sounds like she wanted some pipe laid down but it never happened and she got frustrated, ''lets make out'' followed by eventual dis-interest is a great sign you weren't leading
from the sounds of it, you were waiting for her permission to escalate, then she lost interest cause you weren't getting her there fast enough, she resists, you persist and lead, you get the logistics, you make her horny, you make it happen, don't expect a girl to just sit there dry and come on to you waiting for some magical yes moment, get the fuck in there, start touching, start flirting, start kissing, rub that vajayjay, put in work, make it happen and escalate, don't listen to her shit, watch what she does in reaction to you, of coarse she's not going to make it easy, of coarse she doesn't want to look like a slut, just be patient, keep turning her on, when she shuts you down, back off and go further later
then after she lost interest, she probably ran around the dating market looking for other guys and still only found a bunch of pussies, and the guys that could make her wet via other external sources most likely were not interested, she sees you again and at the time you're probably a fairly appealing option in comparison to what she tried to move on to, she goes for some attention and.... DENIED... massive butthurt ensues
so... go back to online then if you like that and don't want to move from your small town, what fun that will be, can't even touch the girls, you just get to send them messages and weed through a giant sea of fatties and hidious girls who are desperate enough to have to look for dates online cause guys in person don't want to bang them
or.... option two, learn to enjoy yourself more via the night life or move to a place with people and do some daygame since you don't enjoy yourself in the night life
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