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Look into a website called fetlife, you can read a lot about the scene on there.
Things you need to take into consideration. These kinds of girls like to be told what to do. Best thing you can do is start her off with a little homework. Find a fetish list and get her to fill it out, after she has done that sit down and talk to her about what it is that she wants, how hard, how often and to what degree.
Once you get into it, the biggest thing you need to know how to do is called aftercare. I explain that after I explain what can happen. When you go through a hard session what you can do is trigger things she may of experienced in her past, feelings she is not comfortable with or just put her in a state of unease. When you are done you need to make sure to care for her in that overly nice guy kind of way, hold her and make sure she is alright, bring a cool towel to wipe her face with and use the most soothing voice you can muster.
Ropes, handcuffs, hot wax, ice, choking (learn to do it right before you try this), paddles and many other things can be your toys. Look into that website and see if you can find some workshops around you, its a fun thing to do. Just understand, this is a rabbits hole and not all of the girls you run into are going to be sane. I was at a dungeon the other day talking to a girl, asked her how long she had been in the scene and she told me since she was three. Thats more common there then you might want to believe. So be careful.
Hope that was helpful, if there is anything else I can help you with feel free to message me.
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