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I've been texting with this girl for a few days
And last night I asked " so, what do you think of me? What do you like? "
She said I was a really nice guy, and she would like to take me out for a drink.
So we were looking forward to our date this coming Saturday
Today I started to show the fun side of me, she asked how old I was and said that she met lots of guys younger than me which are more mature
I replied saying "well that just makes it more exciting'
She then replied "I don't like excitment"
I said "then hanging out with me might be risky
She then said" so actually, I want to say that we won't be hanging out."
Wtf? Weird situation its just like she is lowering my value and playing me back
Any advice guys?
figure out what it means to be pro-active and lead, unless this girl is over the age of 26 and finds you extremely hot, you are headed for the friend zone
she is leading, you are reacting, she is setting the frame, you are conforming, this is some serious nice guy ''I care what you think'' game
she's practically escalating for you, then she screens you out lol
this ^ is the script you should be running on her, you should be escalating, and you should be screening, you should be leading, and she should be reacting, not the other way around, the other way around = YOU'RE A REALLY NICE GUY BUT LJBF
girl's aren't going to take responsibility for that shit unless they think you are fucking top tier attractive, like they can get huge brownie points from the friends for fucking you, cause if you can't lead, it's just tricky to summon up the moisture in their pants, they need a guy going first and making them horny, not some guy hoping it's ok and hoping they'll just hop on the dick dry cause he was friendly
and a lite little teehee followed by a, ''well im sort of a crazy guy LOL'', is not going to be turning a girl on any time soon unless she thinks you look like fabio or some shit, she can see by the way you are afraid of vaginas that this is not the case
when she said alot of guys are more mature, that most likely alludes to you being a less secure in your sexuality
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last night I asked " so, what do you think of me? What do you like? "
and this sort of frames it up nice, who gives a shit about what she thinks of you, if she doesn't like you she won't bang you, and if that's the case she wont hang out with you or let you escalate so just try to do those things instead of being worried about if she will allow access to her vagina via asking her outright, chances are she wants that to happen with a good 40% of the guys she meets, but she can't say so, that would make her feel slutty (but you should still trust that it is so, if she's meeting you and letting you get close and touchy, she probably wants to see your stamp collection at home)
stop trying to demonstrate high value, start trying to smash ass, nothing is more high value then a guy who is fun to hang out with, has a passion in life, isn't clingy, and lays a good pipe
be that guy instead of the guy who cares what people think so much that he isn't fun to hang out with, has no passions, is clingy, and is afraid to aknowledge that he even has a pipe and acts like he doesn't know what it's for
you're looking way too much for her thumbs up on the escalation, this just makes her feel slutty, remove the responsibility from her end, give her a good banging, instead of trying to get one from her