Hey guys, i know that a lot of you guys are really smart so i have to ask for your advice.

this monday i met this gorgeous girl and we talked like the hole evening and i ended number closing her. i startet texting her the same night i got her number and the first thing that was pretty alarming was that it takes her up to 6-9 hours to answer the messages i sent to her. we texted the hole week and i managed to get a date next tuesday. she also told me that has something going on with a guy from her hometown but she has no clue how to go on with him since he lives 300km away from her now.

we also met randomly at a bar this wednesday and things worked out pretty well, i'm sure she gave me a ton of IOI's and i tried to build up rapport with her

the problem i have is that she stopped responding to my messages since thursday and i have no clue what to do now. should i call her, text her, wait for her response or forget about her?

sorry for my really bad english... my mother tongue is german.

Honestly...nothing.

Pickup is about talking to as many girls as possible to give yourself the most options.

Basically it's like this: You approach X amount of girls. Y percentage will have interest, a percentage of that will give you their number, a percentage of that will agree to a date with you, and a percentage of that will actually show up for that date.

Maybe a master of pick up knows what to do in every situation, but at the end of the day for the average person, it's about casting a bigger net.

Hopefully she responds to your text/call whatever, but short of stalking her and banging on her door, there's really nothing you can do. It sucks, but that's the way it is.

Good luck.

fuck, that sucks

see the problem with this girl is that i think i am really falling for her. anyway thanks for your respond.

Although you might as well not give up totally and give her a call to confirm your date.

Story of my life! Here's what you do...

1. Keep going out and meeting new people.
2. Keep getting reference experience and improving your game.
3. Focus more on the numbers that "stick", rather than the flaky ones.

And more specifically to the topic at hand...

4. Keep hitting up the flaky numbers (in a carefree, non-needy way). Because you never know when you'll run some decent "Zombie Game" and get them back. From my experience, this often pays off, but you still need to organise the meet soon as possible, or you might get stuck into the comfortable "texting buddy" frame with no attraction.

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Whats her hometown?

What country do you live in?

Just asking because the situation sounds bizarrely similar to a situation im in. The girl has even mentioned that she has feelings for a guy 300 km away who is in her hometown but lives away SPAM.

Seriously this would be so fucking weird if its the same girl as this girl can also take 5+ hours to respond to texts. sometimes days. Its bizarre.

Anyway, personally I do what those guys do. Game other girls, keeps your confidence up and distracts you from the girls slow responses.

i live in germany. and german girls are just weird.

anyways, i did get a response from her... she added me on facebook after 4 days of silence -.- BUT, she did not text me in any kind of way.

i also sarged other girls this weekend and i don't hace confidence problems, it's just fucking annoying when shit like that happens.

Hey RaddleSnake. Tell me how they're weird. I'm dealing with one at the moment.

Right guys, it seems we all have this problem with one of the girls we are gaming.

Personally I think its a kind of "I want to see if he chases me" king of thing but its happening repeatedly its bizarre. My case might be different to you guys as I have actually had sex with this girl but recently I;ve had huge gaps between texts that are still dirty.

its just weird. Btw raddlesnake im in england so obviously a different girl. Massive coincidences tho.

Mine is German and I did bang her recently, but there are massive gaps between her texts. It's a weird coincidence.

it is that massive time gap when it comes to texting a girl that annoys me every time. they also are pretty bitchy and hard to approach. sometimes it just feels like they don't want to be chatted up, but maybe it is just my AFC impression.



well i got an answer per sms where she told me about how great her hometown is and what kind of clubs there are and thats it. how would guys reiniciate the chat with her or try to get her to invest in the chat with me.

here's a translation of the message she sent me

ME: heeeey, how's mannheim?

SHE: mannheim's great! you know where everything is, see familiar faces, you know where the best bars and clubs are and what kind of people you have to deal with