My story, its the story of almost everyone on the community. I´ve been an afc of my life, which I ovbiously didnt know it until a friend of mine lend me the book The Game.

Since I finish the book, some things have change but I stilll have problems at the closing part.This is an example;

I just arrive to china to work, one week ago, when I was looking for a place to live, I met a cute Hong Kong girl, 24 years old(chinese body, but brunette, which I like since I am colombian) When she was trying to show me her apartment, the door got locked, which was good I could play with that in the next SMS.

That night she showed me the are and invited me for dinner(yeap huge green light), I had her number so no need to exchange just told her it would be good to hang out. I wrote her three days later and we went out, she took me to a nice cafe, this time I invite her....(dont know if it was good or not). About one week later(yestarday), after some sms conversations, I asked to went out with some friends, she said yes.

She was very well dressed, make up, I thought IoI, this is the night.We went to the club, everything was going good, we dance when a lating song was playing, thinking about kissing her but didnt know if it was too soon for chinese culture, so when we sat down again I gave her a kiss in the cheek to see how will she react, she smiled to me and then 1o minutes later she told she had to leave, she was very tired.

I have beenrejected many times, but not like these,and these like the first set in which I kinda like he girl,

it would be good if you guys could help to understand what happened, I will be writing much more of my china experience to you!. Have a good life and enjoy it!

Chinareboot,

She was very well dressed, make up, I thought IoI, this is the night.We went to the club, everything was going good, we dance when a lating song was playing, thinking about kissing her but didnt know if it was too soon for chinese culture, so when we sat down again I gave her a kiss in the cheek to see how will she react, she smiled to me and then 1o minutes later she told she had to leave, she was very tired.

I'm Asian, and I don't think culture is the problem here. The way I see it, she stated "had to leave, very tired" is because its either she is indicating that she wants to go home with you, or she's just really tired.

A kiss at the cheek is cute, but next time.. Go for a kiss on the forehead to make her feel special.. And go for KINO while your at it

p/s: Don't let her fall on the one-itis category, it'll mess up your game!!!

Cheers

_________________
Good boys go to heaven, Bad Boys go everywhere.

Well, I will never know what she meant if she was very tired, or wanted to go home with me, but I told her that night that I walked er to ger the cab and I had to insist a little(bad move, I know). The kiss on the cheek was coz I know asians doesnt like that much love demonstration in public, and I wanted to build KINO,which I had done it succesfully until that night.(honestly on the forehead I may feel like kissing a daughter)

You are right about the one-itis and think I already blew it, I called her next day(first time, all the other conversation were by sms), and on tuesday and wrote her an sms with no response.

These is my sticking point I build all the interest but when I am about to close, I am missing something, he funny thing is that before reading the book, I was dreadful at building the attraction but good when it as time to close.

Cheers and have a good life and enjoy it, and thabks for the advice my friend.