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im about to see my girl and think that its best to just not talk about it or bring him up any more?
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Bring it up. This is an obstacle to your relationship. If you don't cross it now it will end up biting you in the ass. Call her on it, explain to her why it bothers you. Say it nicely but firmly. If she is really in the relationship then she will understand and she'll stop. A general rule for relationships is that you should not ignore anything. If there is a problem you should try to sort it out as soon as possible, otherwise you are only leading yourself to heartbreak.
i tried not to bring it up but i couldnt not do it... i took her by the beach and we had a nice long talk... i told her it was time to close that chapter in her life and start continuing this new one... she agreed and it seems to be over with...
your advice is true... you deal with problems as soon as they show up.. i always do that but i thought maybe this was different... anyways... all seems okay at the moment ! hopefully it will stay this way