I want to say I'm sorry in advance. This post and the following replies will more than likely be very insensitive and downright mean. But it's not chauvinism, it's just a question.

I have this girl. While not fat she's a little heavy. She is short with a pretty face but still on the rounded side. I'm having a hard time trying to imagine what she'll look like naked and I am debating with myself if its good and honorable to get her that way, not to mention satisfying.

So my question is how far can you go? How far have you tipped the scales? and when you did how was it?

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Since body types/shapes are so variable from one girl to the next it's difficult to quantify exactly how much is "too much", but I have a few general rules of thumb.


1. Does she have rolls of fat? Rolls are "Too much" for me. They generally turn me off.

2. Does she have NICE legs/butt. A girl can have a bit of a gut or heavy around the mid-section but still have nice legs/ass...

3. Similar to #3... Does she have a nice chest? Women can be thick in the thighs/legs or overall just heavy, but still have a very nice rack.

4. Does she otherwise take pretty good care of herself and look/smell clean?

5. Does she have a pretty face?


I picked up 1 heavy girl from a bar, in my life.. took her back to my place and did the deed. It was .. "okay". But i certainly wouldn't have gone back for seconds and there were definitely qualities about her which turned me off.

1. Not that I could see, but the only time I got a proper look at her was when we were outside. It was cold and she was wearing a sweater.

2. Yes to legs, butt not sure.

3. Not big but definitely above an average skinny girl's

4. Yes, nice hair and nice clothes.

5. Yes

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Hey man, in this situation I say, "Whatever floats your boat". If you think she's too fat, than she is. If you just want to get a nut off, then close your eyes picture Kate Upton while she's suckin your D? Nah, mean?

I have a lot of options at the moment. I don't want this girl to be my girlfriend and I can't shag and quit in case it ruins my spotless reputation. The few extra pounds could just be the extra reason for me to do this. Fuck I'm an awful person!

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In that case, if you can make it a 1 night stand or fuck buddy, then go for it.. (assuming you have any kind of connection, which it seems you do.)

But if you're afraid of hurting this girls feelings or ruining your reputation if you dump her then you should get out now and not fuck her.

Well, somethings just have to be done. I guess it's a step forward, I year ago I would never have turned a girl down.

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Dude every guy has absolutely different taste. I cannot tell you what to bang, at the end of the day just penetrate whatever you find attractive. If you feel embarrassed about wanting to fuck a girl because shes fat then just dont tell anyone, but at the end of the day no one cares who the hell you fucked.

My friends make fun of me for liking certain girls and I bust their balls for liking a certain type. Just be honest with what YOU like, if you feel attracted to her then do it.

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The fat ones do way more stuff.

Imagine her slowly stripping as her stomach fat jiggles up and down. She takes off her silk shirt and throws it at your face, and you get consumed by the overly large fabric; at this point you think, could I use this as a parachute to jump out the window and save myself? NO, keep watching. You look at her double chin, trying to figure out where her neck and head separate. As you look down, you notice her flabby boobs touching the top of her big, wide stomach. As she continues dancing, you keep looking lower, noticing a dark hole hypnotizing you with round motions. All of a sudden you see a shining star! Nope, just her belly button piercing. You keep looking lower, and lower, and lower, and lower, and lower. You see your hands, you put them up to your face, and start crying. You look up, and she is right in front of you. She is out of breath. She is trying to lift her heavy leg to climb onto your knees. You grab her sweaty love handles, just to find your hands can't grab onto anything. As she slowly climbs on top of you, you can't help but notice an open window in the background, when two things come to your mind: thank god there is at least some air to save me from this sweaty woman, and where is that parachute again?


On a positive note, I never had and never will fuck a big girl. I set my standards pretty high, and tipping the point onto the wrong side would make me lose self respect. If she paid me a million bucks, perhaps. Oh, the flexible principles..

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