In all honesty I've only been clubbing twice in my life. Tonight being the second time and I would love some feedback on what I should have done.

First trip (over a year ago) - Bunch of mexicans, ratio was meh. It was me and 2 guy friends. We split up and I circled around. A grenade actually snatched my hand and put it around her waist so being the AFC that I was, I grinded with her before she moved on since I wasn't doing shit. Asked a really hot girl to dance, got laughed at, I circled around a bit more and danced with a cute girl, asked her straight up to dance, she obliged, didn't get her number. I don't remember grinding her though, but I might have.

That's all that happened in my first trip ever, after that I found a girlfriend and I haven't been to the club until tonight.

Tonight - Went with 3 female friends. See that's the part that threw me off, one of my female friends called me if I wanted to go and I said sure but when I got into the car there were 2 others. The one that called me is a 7 and the other two were about 4 and 6. I was the only guy, I'm pretty sure some of you will be cursing at me for not seeing some great opportunities but I didn't know how to handle myself which is why I'm posting this.

The problem is I have a brother/sister relationship with the 7, the 6 has a boyfriend of 6 years but she seemed like she wanted me. But I'm not going to be a person to break someone's relationship. The 4....well she's a 4. The group mentality or I should say the girls' mentality was that grinding is bad. So I was stuck...was I suppose to leave all 3 and try to find a girl to dance? Throughout the entire night I just danced with them, nonsexually. Early on there was a girl (around a 6) that start shaking her ass in my direction with no one else in the vicinity. I wanted to just grab it and show her what's up...but I was in front of my female friends. Then towards the middle, a random dude came into our circle and tried to high five me...it amused me because I think if I had returned it I would have given the okay to take one of the girls but I didn't and he just walked away after. At the end, there was a persistant guy who got a short dance out of the 7 (they danced facing each other but there was no touching except he gave her a twirl once).

Tell me what should I have done when I was the only guy in the group? I'm going to Vegas in a month (with a bunch of guy friends, thank god) so hopefully I can get my mojo working. But in the mean time, I would like to working my clubbing game.

Would really like some feedback guys...

I think you should have had fun dancing with your friends.

If you wanted to get girls you should have separated and searched for girls, or not go with them altogether.

Two thoughts:

First, IME club game is really tough. Girls are incredibly defensive, it's too loud to talk much, and it's really chaotic. I club a lot, but mostly because I like the vibe and like to dance. i find club game much tougher than, say, day game.

That said, second, if I have to club game, I'd say you were set up pretty well. You're dancing with three chicks who don't see you as a threat, who you can probably get pretty crazy with. Other women will see that and view you as a HVM. The fact that some AFC tried to join your crew and high five you (i.e. seek your acceptance) just affirms your alpha status. I'd start by just relaxing and dancing with the chicks you were with. You'll have fun, feel like a boss (you have three chicks), and that emotion should prime you for whatever game you then want to run. As for what that is, there are a ton of things to try, and you might have to experiment and find your own groove. Personally, I've had a lot of luck finding a girl I think is hot and just asking one of her friends straight up if she is single. I'm shocked how often friend answers "yes" and is eager to introduce me. Not sure if this works for everyone or is just my thing, but it's become a go-to for me.

Hope that helps?

Still looking for someone to slap me in the wrist and tell me how much i fucked up in such a golden opportunity.

I guess I'm looking for someone to tell me what I should have done step by step.

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