Dudes, Thanks for your time.

I coming home the other day and I saw this amazing HB 9.5 near me at the bus. As the bus was crowded I managed to be standing near her, I was reading some book and she was sitted totally into her cellphone.

During the bus travel I wondered should I approach her or would it be to creepy because she's really into her cell phone and I would scare her? I just let it go and saw the name of her friend in SPAM. looked for her friend at facebook, found her and them found the HB! and we have a lot of friends in common!!! (totally stalker... terrible I know!)

So I went to a friend of mine (she's also sister of one of my oldest friends) and told her the story, and she was like "dude!! she's gorgeous and just broke up" "plz... build up some image for me, because I'll act!" and she "oh... go talk to her at facebook... tell i'm your friend too"

then I went to facebook and sent her a message saying "hey I'm friend of julia may we talk a little?" (at this time I thought I look to great and because of that every woman should want me... terrible x10) she didn't reply. GENIUS!

the next week I was at a great party, and by coincidence she was there. I approach her (still feeling I'm brad pitt) and with a james bond face I talked "hey, let me talk to you for a second" she made a face like "oookay... another jerk" as I realized that I made that shaking hands sign and "I'm phill, friend of julia" and she was "ohhh you´re the facebook guy" than we have a small talk and I (too fairplay to be real) started "miss... I need to tell you a bizarre and funny story ... " and told her about the bus. later she added me back in facebook.

A few days later I've sent her some message about the party, just as an opener. she replyied a fews days later and we chat... then it all came dead end to me.


BUT a few days later we were at the same bus together again, at this time I thought "I won't talk to her, she must talk to me" and of course she ignored,or didn't see me.

Next day I sent her a message "I think we we're at the same bus yesterday" she replied she didn't saw me and we had again some small talk, no advance.

the week later (2 days ago) we went to the same bus... then I talk to her, we have some conversation about the parties that are going on in rio, about relationships, about were we work (we work really near each other) about the region we work (gave her some restaurant hints).

at the end I ask her "so, we work really close to each other, let's have lunch sometime" and she blocked me saying "oh I use to bring my food a lot because its healthier" (after a hell lot of talk about restaurants... GREAT!). then she had to leave the bus and I said "try to answer your facebook messages (as we spoke she didn't enters much in facebook) and "send me offline messages, I'll reply" and left.

I haven't send her a message yet because I'm kind of stuck.

As I went fair play in that party she build up a higher position, and as seems to be I was not able to create a great mood or an amazing conversation at the bus.

what should I do???

Hey, It think this could work.
Send her a message saying you have been thinking about the idea of bringing your own food is healthier and will try it. then propose her a Picnic, girls love picnics. hope it helps!

it´s some idea but we both work in downtown... there´s no way doing a picnic here.

any ideas?

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@Phil- Dude dude dude! WTF are you doing?

I can point out about 50 things you did wrong which turned the girl off.

#1, you have this warped/stupid mentality that looks matter. Looks don't fucking matter!! So there's no reason for you to be going on about Brad Pitt and expect women to just fall all over you.

2nd. Your messages to her were fucking lame and Beta/weak. She not replying to the 1st.message was a IOD(sign of disinterest). I've done this lots of time(search for girls via her friend's profile). But it worked for me because I don't come off as needy.

When you said to the girl "may we chat a bit". That was an instant turnoff!! You gave her the control.

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kenny, thanks for your time but knowing all that you just said made me come here and write this post. I know what I´m doing wrong, what I need to know is: dafuq should I do right now?


and as I despise to admit looks (and money) does not count as I thought, during the past 15 years I was oriented to think that way. So I reached a point that I can not evolve much (unless I get millionaire) if I do not start being a nice and pleasant person to be around. and that´s the main reason I´m here.

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