How do you deal with pua's hitting on your gf?

For example a guy asked my gf to hang out, she said she had a bf, he said "your boyfriend should have no effect on you hanging out with other people, lets go to the pub firday"

How do I deal with this? Im almost postive this guy is a pua, and he I think he is about the drop a bf destroyer on my gf....so how should I handle this?

I have reason to believe this because everything he did up to this point was text book!

is your girlfriend falling for it, i.e. agreeing to meet him, text-flirting with him, ...?

if not, then what I would do is bring her to a bookstore, get her a copy of "The game" and have her read through it... "look where your overly creative new suitor gets his pick-up lines".. that should suffice to make the guy your inner joke.

if she is instead falling for the competitor, then I would repeat the above process. at the end, though, I would dump her saying something like "have fun with your new actor boyfriend."

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call him and act like that:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=37LfA4UcfFo[/youtube]

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haha nice video!

She met him at a college party so I really don't know much about how they met but clearly he must have made a lasting impression for her to talk to him. He's not very good looking at all! but I am guessing he has high social value....I would go as far as to say hes ugly, but very smooth!

I only know about this because my gf left her facebook open at my condo a couple days ago and I looked at the message. So basically I have no grounds to say anything, but i know he is gaming her hard! or at least trying...my gf know I know about the guy, she doesn't know that I know they have chatted and that he has asked her to hang out.

Is she flirting back, seeming interested in him on the FB Messages?

Not really...but shes not shutting him down either...the one message went like this:

(He had a song on his wall) she posted "Hey you like them too!! Im not only person who likes them!

Then he msg her:

Him: Hey what are you doing?
her: Nothing bored so Im creeping facebook
Him: So your creeping my facebook eh?
Her hahaha Guess so
Him: Im hungery, your board, lets grab a bit to eat.

(The next day)

Her: Sorry I had to go offline, I had to work early in the morning so I went to sleep.

Him: Im going to a concert I think you would really like! its on saturday, Im going to take you.

Her: I don't think My boyfriend would be cool with that.

Him: Your boyfriend should have no effect on who you hang out with, Il pick you up at 8.

No more messages.

p.s the only reason she said she had a bf was because I asked her "have you talked to _____" and she said yes, and I said about what? she said nothing just small talk, I asked "did he ask you to hang out"....she said "yeah...." and I said "I hope you told him you have a bf, thats just common sens" she then said she would. Kind of afc I know....

Don't mess up. Now's the time to figure her out. But if you can, go with her!

1) 99% of all "puas" suck so you have nothing to worry about.

2) "BF Destroyers" dont really work so you have nothing to worry about.

3) If your giving your GF the things she needs (emotional connection, fun, good sex, ect) then shes not going anywhere. Do you have anything to worry about?

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What WarpedMindless said.


A couple years ago I was at a club with some friends. I approached a hot brunette in the corner.. Damn did she look good. She was being pretty stand off-ish, but I just kept pushing for conversation.

Out of nowhere her boyfriend comes around and introduces himself to me with a smile.

He asks me, "Hey man, you hitting on my girlfriend?"

I replied, "Absolutely!"

He says, "I don't blame you, just look at her! *pauses* ...But you know what, sometimes she's just not worth the trouble."

He smiled and walked away.

She chased after him.

Most alpha reaction I've ever seen.

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outstanding alpha reaction, I´d call that "pua destroyer" lol.

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If your girlfriend is worth dating at all, she would be very turned off by this idiot's evident lack of primary education. You probably have nothing to worry about. Her responses weren't very compliant with this guy's advances, anyway.
That's pretty fucking awesome

Eh, I've used bf destroyers with some effectiveness in the past. I had a girl with a boyfriend liking me a couple of weeks ago. We both agreed taking it further was a bad idea - I didn't want to date date her after all (this is after she invited me out dancing at 1 am..)

That being said, he doesn't seem to be succeeding. She'll probably will only go with him if you're boring her/get super jealous or bothered by it. It also sounds like you could be gaming your own girlfriend better.

CB and AMOG him. Explain to your gf that guys like that are just looking to draw you away from your bf and smooth talk you just to get into your pants, then they'll never talk to you again. Even if she does go meet him, she'll be weary of his agenda. Then he'll tip his hand and she'll realize he's not just some hot, fun guy--he's a pua trying to get laid.

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One word to describe this. WOW!
Good on you for trying to call him out on it, but that is an excellent example of how to handle another alpha.