Confessions as in like asking a girl out and telling them about your feelings. What are your thoughts on this? Is this recommended. If not what are the alternatives?

Thanks in advance!

You can tell her you like her, try making it as covert as possible though. It's a lot more attractive. If you start spilling your emotions then you are going to be a little bitch and she will subconsciously see you as desperate.

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Can you give me an example of how to do it covertly? Do you mean like 'throwing hints' that you like her?

Sorry, this next question is noob, but what happens if she sees you as desperate? Are there good or bad desperation or desperation is always bad? When is being desperate good?

Yeah, covert is when she hears it from someone else, or you do something indirect to let her know. Then it let her mind wonders, and while shes thinking about you, she's not thinking about anyone else.

And desperate is never good. If she knows you are desperate for her she will think, why me? whats so goo about me over other girls etc.... it destroys you as a person in the sexual market. You want to be a man who is wanted by other woman, if she knows that you are desperate for her and only her then she will lose respect for you (natural instincts) and move on.

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So like I can just get someone to hint to her that I like her and this will create some attraction in her for me? What if I do it up front like just go straight up to her and be like 'This is how I feel about you.' Why is covert more attractive?

I see about the second part. Thank you!

this is fucking sweet, do it often to alot of girls, and stop caring about specifics or if it ''works''

it feels great just to get it out there, it's like passive permission to say and do what you want when you are on regular speaking terms with girls who certainly know what you are about, and you can take them or leave them at any point

as long as you don't care what happens as a result, you are in a great position

I see. So just speak your mind and if she wants you, then great. If not, then at least you were being you.

Yeah aslong as you are'nt cut up on her and actually desperate.

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I see. Thanks for the lessons!