I have been with my gf for 10 weeks, we have been talking for years though and now we are finally together.

I am very happy, we keep breaking up however, i keep making silly mistakes i was a very naughty person in the past and proving to her im turning my life around, and ditching old friends and basically starting a new life.

However she does not trust me, little things she picks at, me always being on my phone and stuff and social networking sites.

She is very smart and also just accuses me now of silly shit, however we keep breaking up.

I love this girl and keep messing up she just does not like me as a person however she is upset and we can still be together i think.

She was ill today and felt crap, I sent her some flowers today and she has done nothing but be blunt and try to rack up an argument.

I am just being blunt, and telling her its not what it seems!

I sent the flowers this girl just needs some time away from me i think to realise im not actually messing her about and want to be with this girl.

She received the flowers and text me saying....

They are a little bit to late......

And then she said are the flowers for lying making her cry bla bla bla.

I ignored it as i put clearly on the card saying get well soon babe x

Do you think i should ignore her for a bit?

Or explain the reason i sent them?

If i ignore her do you think she may feel bad for saying them things to me?

Please advise many thanks

Ok im not a pua so i could be giving you wrong advice here so take it with a pich of salt.

Why do you care about this girl if she just wants to argue your a man next time she tries to bring up an arugument tell her if you keep doing this im going to fuck you off, She will probabaly act bitchy at first freeze her out i give it a 1-2 weeks before she texts you back.

Once she texts you back you now have the upper hand set some rules if she follows them she can be with you if not tell her to sling her hook.

Yes i understand its easy for me telling you freeze a girl out you like an you probably are tossing yourself off in your bed thinking about her everynight.
But girls need you too be the boss.

An all this changing stuff for a girl will only lead too problems why change yourself for a girl shes nothin special just like every other girl were all equal.

If this advice aint for you just go round her house whip you cock out an slam it in her mouth with out saying anythin before hand

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Thank you for the advice, however it is never this simple, besides after i sent the flowers she sent load of shit saying each one was for a cover up of a lie of the time i made her cry.

She has messaged me 2 times since i sent the flowers nothing positive...

Before she messaged this i wrote a text saying " i dont know why i bother"

what do you advise?

Although sticking a cock in her mouth is a gd idea, im talking realistic terms im kinda pissed off with this one.

I am a PUA and I say baracuda is pretty spot on! This girl has broken you down and stripped away everything that made her attacted to you in the first place. You were her onion and she has peeled you to your core, now she wants a new onion! Because of her insecurities (which are as plain as day) she wants it to appear to be your fault (so she can justify it). This girl will continue to push you and degrade you until you are a cowering shell of a man. If you have any alpha "MAN" left inside of you, you should tell her she is being a child and tell her you are done! Drop her ass like she was contaminated and NEVER look back, she is not capable of change and will always be this person you have before you now!

I wish you well.

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Crypto how do u know so much man??...u just spoke directly to me...wish i had this advice wen i was with my Ex...i knew she was no Good but i never did the alpha male thing n drop her insecured ass.....but i finally did wen i found out she was cheating on me...i left n never looked back..altho it was too late..

As crypto said shes gotten bored of you zero challenge for her to try change you.

As for sticking it in her mouth realistic terms in your head is logical my realistic terms are illogical

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Sup My Dude. Im sorry but why do you even want to be with somebody, who doesn't like you as a person?
I know you love her and you don't want to lose her, but the previous posters are right. She don't want you no more, 'cause she's stripped you from all your male dominance and balls. Your no challenge for her no more,
but she won't dump you, she wants you to dump her.
So when all is said and done, you get the blame for the failed relationship.

My advice to you is, Dump her! no freeze outs, or re-engaging shit, dump her. and learn from this to never change for a girl, doesn't matter how much you love her.
She's clearly not for you. And I promise you it won't be the end of the world, you'll find somebody better.

Goodluck.

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