I just started college and to be honest I'm a little bit worried.

My situation is I suppose a little strange. I'm certainly not trying to brag but I'm not an ugly guy. I'm 6ft tall with a muscular build, broad shouldered and deep chested. I'm a rugby forward and if any of my American friends don't know what that is then Look it up. I might be slightly, minutely on the heavier side but that's not an issue really. It's understandable with my frame and I've never been conscious of it. If anything it's a bonus in my sport. I also have clean cut look and generally I scrub up well. I am certainly a solid 7.

Add to this the fact that unattractive guys can often have very hot girlfriends, I've seen this first hand. By those standards I shouldn't really have a limit.

However my problem is that I am practically unable to talk properly with women. The experiences I've had were more things that happened to me rather than things I caused. I feel as if I have no control over which girl I might get and no control over the pace at which we go.

This is, I suppose, due to a crushing lack of experience. You see I went to an all boys secondary school. I lived in the countryside and the only activities I did outside school were all male sports. I've simply never been around women, at least not substantially. I know practically nothing about the details of PUA, methods or approaches.

However I've now been thrust into an environment where suddenly there are girls all around me. I'm lost, and I'm watching guys who are at most my physical equals suddenly becoming successful with girls. What should I do? What can I do? Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.