As Crypto says! "Don't igonore her at Salsa, just don't dance with only her."

If you don't have the balls to be blunt.....don't reply at all!

If she starts the winy "Are you mad at me" bullshit! Reverse rolls here! give HER the LJBF @ salsa speech!

Or just spend your evenings jacking it to her picture!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

thanks

In this situation I used to say to the girls this;

"Hey, I'm not sure I can do the friends thing at the moment as I developed feelings for you and I need space to let them pass. I hope you understand that us continuing to talk will not help me achieve this. However I want you to know that when we bump into each other things will not be awkward as we did get along very well after all."

Then at salsa I'd say hi straight away and I'd ask how she was doing. I'd then make a few light hearted jokes and have the first dance with her. After that I'd focus on other girls and try to have a good time.

Your feelings will pass sooner than you think especially if you feel like your in control of your own actions. With time you might even be able to be friends. Plus there's always an outside chance that she will realise what she's missing. Though be careful in that senario as they can get flirty with you just to regain your attention to boost their ego.

so i replied

long story short i am physically attracted to you / you want us to be friends
i cant be just friends with some one i'd like to sleep with...u dont even let me get to you = not happening

too soft??

Great job Bro 3 gold stars! Not that "hard" but completely contrasting to anything else you have done!

The ball in her court! Kudos!

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she just replied

''oh ok if thats wat u want. but 1 question what do u mean with me not letting u get to know me??''



i dont want to go back n forth...dunno y she would ask tho ...ignore is in order?..or shuld i think of somfin to text her back?

Why do you feel the "NEED" to justify yourself ....let her wonder what you meant.

Your intentions were clear enough!

Forget it for a while, go work out, blow off some steam, hang out. GO CHAT UP SOME OTHER GIRLS!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She is just testing to see if you will cave! Get off your ass and get outside more! The outside is effing amazing ya know?!

Peace...

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Bra-fucking-vo Cryp!

P.S. ..........leave that fucking phone INSIDE!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Best switch off to her for a few days.

You have a lot better things to do in your life than answer dumb questions.

I generally ignore most of their questions and hardly even hear them when they start to yap and bleat:)

I am miles away and thinking of the next chick.

Guys ..im gonna see here tomoro...so i need to sort this out ...i dont need any awkward moment tomoro else would mess with my salsa mojo(im not tuned like most of u).. ..so i need a text reply tonight.....ive made my point. shuld i text.....'''i just dont want your friend ship salsa together maybe??

Dude, I love you like a neighbor but you aren't listening to anything we are telling you! I didn't want to have to break out some tough love but in your case, I think it is time!

"STOP SUCKING THIS GIRLS DICK AND BE A FUCKING MAN!"

Who gives a shit about her feelings, don't reply to her at all and go dance like it was any other night. When she speaks to you be polite and be comfortable, if she asks whats wrong with you simply say "nothing" just dont do it in a pissy way (i.e. No freaking attitude)!

I would tell you a story about this womans pussy, but you will never get it!

/Rant off

Dude seriously, your inner game sucks and you need to realize that so you can start working on fixing it! So many people have been on your post to offer advice/guidance and you have not allowed anything to stick inside that head of yours! I wish you well, I am done with this post.


Peace...

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Do what Crypto says. Or wear a tight skirt and some earnings to Salsa

In your phones caller ID Change HER name to "I'm a big fat pussy"

Every time you get the urge to text/call her you will be reminded why you fucking SHOULDN'T

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

sorry crypto ....i know i suck..seriously ..im frustrated with my self ...i hvnt sent her anything...so i will do as crypto sed...im clueless wen it comes to women...but with u guys...im sure i can change ...cos im determined to follow anything u tell me im 28 n have only slept with 3 girls all my life..... no sex since last year 14th of feb thats how much i blow..

That last reply of yours bugs me. These guys have offered you great advice and you are taking it, you're learning. Yes, you need the advice. But c'mon dude you sound so pathetic in your last post! I think Crypto mentioned your inner game issues and it clearly is showing.

You're not crap, a loser, whatever. You don't blow. These thoughts enter your head and will only continue to hurt your game. Stop thinking about the last time you had sex, stop thinking how long ago that was. Start thinking ahead - to what you can do to improve yourself and why you can attain those goals.

Chin up, stop being so feeble.