Ok well this girl came round saturday but didnt put out, She said she doesnt want too sleep with me on the first night ... fair point
so she came round today an we ended up in my bedroom fucking before that though she like tossed me off for about 3 minutes an i shot my load this is really stopping me becoming a great pua
it makes me afriad to escualte sober it took me about 15 minutes to get hard again so i was just fingering her an that after i got hard i banged her for about 40 minutes maybe more had a great time gave her the best sex of her life.

Also this girl im not too sure what i want i like her but how i act around girls i act like a boyfriend cuddling an that but i dont think im ready for out serious yet
Shes coming round tommorow an i need some tips to stop blowing my load quickly
Im not too fussed if there long term but its really holding me back.

Also this shooting my load problem is the one thing that stops me daygaming because i know i could get a fclose in a random place in the daytime an im sick to fucking death of having too get drunk too sleep with girls all the time cheers for any help guys

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masturbate once in the morning before she comes over, twice maximum so you can still get a hard on.. Anyway, this can work for you. I have been off masturbation for so long as it does affect my game if I do it( i get addicted to it when I do it so i just quit it). You should also learn to control yourself. Here is few tips: Take long breathes while you are in an intercourse as your heart beat will pump slower causing you to cum later. Also before cumming either make her stop and then fingering her taking few minutes break and then make her do it again, and lastly just think of your grandmother when you are about to cum.( will make you last longer trust me ) lol

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Haha well we didnt even get to the sex before i came in my pants when she put her hand down an began to toss me off, I just played it off an began kissing her an fingering her untill i got hard again then i was ready for her.

Im kind of a horny guy one night when i was 16ish i cummed 17 times of masterbation in 1 night took me about 2 hours that was my record now im 23 i usually have around 2-3 a day but sometimes i do go a little wild an hit about 10 through the day.

Alot of the times with girls i can cum then ill just stay hard an carry on.
Aha i shall try my gran one tommorow iv heard of kegal exercises but i just dont see how they could work an its really hard too remember too keep doing them

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