This is something that's really been on my mind lately. Right now, I don't think I have a lifestyle that girls would approve of - I want to be more out going. And I was thinking when I enter in my next relationship I want to know how to keep her satisfied and happy.

So what's expected of the man in this position? I don't want to have a life that goes: Wake up, go to work, come home, see the wife, eat, sleep and repeat. I think that life is boring for both people. I mean, what ard you suppose to do to be an Alpha male in life. Only people with experience answer.

1# Passion. You need a passion in your life, figure out what you love to do and do it every day! If your an artist quit your job and pursue it! If you love cars become a mechanic, it doesn't matter wtf it is but find it! Women love passionate men, they love men who are at the top of their field, it doesn't matter if you make minimum wage....if you can come home with a smile on your face and be excited about life she will respect you. Alpha males do what they want in life, they don't subscribe to the "all american dream", they create their own path, they do what they want in life!

2# Honesty. From the get go make it clear that you will both be 100% honest, get everything out from how many guys she has slept with, to has she ever cheated ect ect ect...this is very important! ignorance is not bliss in a relationship because often her or your past will come back to haunt you.

3# Communication. Be able to stay calm in all situations! be able to not only communicate but also listen! you need to listen to her needs and she needs to listen to yours.

4# Sex. great sex is simply one of the most important things in a relationship!

Dark, good answer! But what about when it comes to day-to-day living. Like what are you to do each day with her? How do you keep it fun and exciting.

IMO there are a few things that ruin most relationship and I very confident that these 3 things are the reason for 90% of all women loosing interest.

1# Passion. The reason I keep mentioning passion is because most guys going into a relationship have a lot of passion! when they are single they spend much of their time on that passion, and that passion is one of the main reasons your gf was attracted to you in the first place, unforchantly most guys get into a relationship they put their passion on the back burner, they make their relationship the only priority in their life, and their value as a man drops.

Imagine if when your gf met you, you were a loved music! you were a guitarist in a band, you worked at a bar to support your passion, music was your first love and you are an amazing guitarist! every one around your respects you because you are so passionate and good at what you do! Now you meet your gf and start spending more time with her and less time with music, a couple years down the road you quit the band so you can get a desk job in order to support your new life with your gf which to you makes sens...and although you did all of this for your gf she begins to loose attractions for you, she starts talking to old ex's and going out with her friends more, why does this happen? because you have lose your identity! you have given up your passion for life.

See passion in your person life, and passion in your relationship go hand in hand. If you are not happy with who you are as a person, then your relationship will suffer greatly!

Passion is the key to happiness! Find the one thing that you are really good at and pursue it! make it your life! and become the best at it! guys that follow the rules and play it safe are usually the same guys that get walked all over in life...people don't walk over people they respect.

2# Always have fun:

I have a friend who who is the same age as me (25), he said to me "I'm past the party stage in my life, I am getting older now, I would rather stay in", this same guy is in a relationship with a women who treat him like shit! walk all over him, and has very little respect for him! the crazy thing is that he is a very good looking guy! (no homo) and she is at best an hb 6....and that is being generous. She goes out a lot with her friend, and gets mad because he never wants to go out anymore, when they met he was fun but now he thinks he is "to old" to have fun? lol

I know another couple (my gf's father and step mother), they are in their early 50's, they go out dancing every weekend! they go biking together, they have fun! and I have seen very few men receive the kind of respect her father does from her step mother! they have more fun in their lives in a week then most couples have in a life time!

So what is my point? Don't stop having fun just because you are in a realtionship, go to the club with your gf, go hiking, go to the gym together, go on trips, buy her a sexy dress and take her out for dinner! always have fun! don't let thing get routine, life is to short so make the best of it! women want exciting men! they want fun!

3# Sex is important: sex is a really important part of a relationship! and after a while it can become boring! I can honestly say my gf and I have amazing sex that keeps getting better and better even after 3 1/2 years! we always try new thing, we go to the sex shop together and buy a new toy from time to time, she took a strip tease class one time, we are always having fun! and our sex life rocks! she is by far the best sex I have ever had and she tells me the same....so why would either of us go eles where for sex? If she is getting the best sex of her life from me then why would she want to go have terrible, boring sex with some other dude? The answer is she wouldn't.

Any way man I hope this helps you out, I just kind of threw this together quick but I think these are key components of a solid relationship! and things that I feel most couples neglect...you keep these three things in place and your relationship will be solid!