| So I'm your AFC, slept with 7 girls in my life at the age of 22. I'm looking to raise this number, but I am absolutely horrible with women. No confidence, no dominance, no game. I've relied on looks, luck, and alcohol for most of my sexual encounters (these three conditions align with some regularity at a large public school). Now that I've graduated, something needs to change. I just began reading "The Game," and it has just blown me away. It all makes so much sense, and I am angry I did not discover this shit earlier. My thoughts regarding women and attraction were immediately revamped, and everything I'm reading about is now constantly on my mind.
The other night I was at a house party, and I decided to test the waters a bit. Because my experience and knowledge is so limited, I only had a few very general ideas to apply, but I decided it would be fun and interesting to see where they got me. At this party there were about 20 males, 7 females. Naturally, this involved the females receiving large amounts of unwanted attention at all points of the night. Apparently I was surrounded by AFCs. As I was standing outside, I noticed one of the girls standing next to me talking to her group, with her back towards me. I seem to remember Mystery stating that this can be an indication that the girl is interested. So I decided to see what was up. She turned around and then I took my shot... She was drinking a 40 of some shitty malt liquor, so that seemed like an easy target to open with and throw in a neg about. I think it came out as more of a straight up insult though. I can't remember the exact words, but it was something like,
"Oh is that Olde English you're drinking?"
"Mhmm"
Then I playfully said something about her having no class for drinking such shit... I tried to smile and maintain strong eye contact. She laughed a bit and tried to defend herself. She seemed interested in talking to me. I think my approach was refreshing to her. I proudly showed her my much classier vodka and told her this is what people with class drink. And with that I turned around and began offering swigs of it to the people standing outside, acting confident and social. "You look like you need some vodka..." Shit like that. I moved across the porch during the process, and sure enough, within about a minute this girl had followed me and positioned herself next to me again. I decided to let her initiate the next contact (right thing to do)? She seemed like she wanted me to pay attention to her but I just kept conversing with some dudes. Finally she started talking to someone else and loudly said, "and classy boy over here..." referring to me trying to get my attention. We started talking about some bullshit and in the end I got her number.... But I was really amazed how easy it was to go from some beta chump, trying to pursue women, chasing them, to getting them to pursue me. I was going about it completely wrong. I am very excited for the future....
So I am asking you guys here to refer me to some good starting points. Some good reads for newbies. Good techniques. Whatever. Where do I begin my journey!?
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