here's the story: she's taken and I am - we both know and at least my gf is ok with it.

now I picked up the girl months ago at a corporate event, went from ignoring to dirty dancing with her within 2 hours but was to drunk to close (both were, lol).

months after, I see her again and she's now backward rationalising but also giving massive IOIs if I play proper game.

problem is: she's got game too so I need to neg her hard but that's not really good for comfort zone. If I don't neg she'll immediately say something like "you're not my type". Only if I neg-freeze out she'll say like "for something serious..." and then grab my ass.

Problem one: how to neg her not too hard (HB 7) but also enough (persistently), so that we're on the same level for comfort zone?

Problem two: she has a bf and I really need good game to close her. As she's very rational I need lots of drinks for her (which she pays for) – but I like to try without. I now need to get away from the comfort zone immediately but seem to start all over again every time we meet....

Thanks for any help!