| Hello, let me introduce myself first. I am Apple, 18. Still an amateur.
Anyways, I studied about this PUA subject about 1 month ago, and have recently finish reading the books of "The Game" and "Tao of badass" and has grown a hell lot of confidence around woman, learnt quite how to talk to a woman and getting phone numbers, so far I have gotten 2 girls hooked to me but I am not interested in them like they are to me.
However, the girl I am interested, which put me into the dreadful friendzone, is a girl I once spent 5 years chasing after her. And not, I got put into the friendzone before I knew all about this PUA stuff, please don't judge me for the shit of a man I once was.
Anyways, here is the story:
5 years ago, when I entered a new highschool at age 13, I met this cute girl, let's just call her Kelly. This pretty girl that I fell in love at first sight. (I know it's gonna be cheesy) We would text message and SPAM all day every night, until the point where I go the toilet she said she missed me not talking to her, even though it was a 2minute pooping. session. That's how close we were, she was an angel, sweet, innocent and didn't do the bad shit like drugs and you know what. That's how I like girls, straight edge.
So 2 years passed by, we stayed very close and a lot of people stared saying we were dating. I finally got the balls to man up and just confess to her on SPAM. (I know, it was pathetic). I was waiting for an answer but she just went offline on me and stopped talking to me for 3 months.
I was 15 at that time and I couldn't accept that because of a stupid confession, I have lost the girl of my dreams. I flipped out and found her at school and just was the biggest asshole in the planet and insulted her for what she did to me, I wanted an answer from her, but I left her crying till she had to find a nurse to sent her home. Later that night, she messaged me on facebook and we argued until we used so much swear words, don't know how, but my teacher was using my laptop the other day and saw this conversation. We were both suspended.
Then it was 2 years of no communication between us, we both had "boyfriends and girlfriends" but they never worked out. It was until in 2010, she asked if I was in the same class with her in the beginning of the year, and because of that conversation, we got close again. Perhaps closer than before. I became obsessed, needy, annoying, THE ULTIMATE friendzone material, a.k.a the best brother in the world. I would think about her 24/7, stalk her on facebook, you know what.
I would get jealous so easy and we only used SPAM to talk, only hanged out in real life for about 2 times. MY confidence at that time were close to 0 out of 10 million, I was the nicest guy to her.
I would buy her presents every damn holiday and would be so shy and would compliment her non stop, listen to alll her goodamn problems about her exs and her being alone. I would double check or change my message because I was afraid my messages would make her feel bad in any sort of way, so ALL i did was please her.
Then something magical happen in mid of 2010, me and my best friend (male) and her were suppose to have a date, to go hiking. Then on that day my bestfriend suddenly got sick and couldn't made it. So that was the official (unofficial first date) for me, me and her went hiking alone. I had NO game, NO confidence, ExTREMELY SHY. Kept looking at my phone and didn't shave, didn't look good, kept looking at the floor, BARELY said anything to her on that day. I knew she wasnt having a good time. But then she suddenly fainted, and my good guy mode switched on, and picked her up on my shoulders and carried and ran to the nearest store and called the ambulance. I was there all night with her next to her hospital bed.
When she woke up, she hugged me tight and thanked me.
The day after that, she messaged me , thanking me with her life.
THen I finally confessed to her one more time, since we were both 17 at the time, i thought it was appropriate that we were both matured. Then she gave me the ULTIMATE ANSWER, the end of ends, the death of hell answer, "Thanks (my name), you are my best brother in the world, I love you."
That moment, I didn't even know what a friendzone is, but I immediately flung from my chair and jumped on the bed and cried non stop. I cried so much my eyes were still red the morning after that day.
From that day, I was cold to her, didn't reply no more messages from her and just thought I have wasted 5 years being a complete slave to her (ALTHOUGH I didn't regret it to this day), and I had to change my life.
I stopped talking to her for 1 year straight and she kept giving me signs on twitter saying
"You never know what you have until it's gone"
"A boy will never forget the girl he couldn't have, a girl will never forget the boy she should have had".
From that day later, on new years eve, she called me and told me whether I hated her or not, she wanted to see me one last time before high school ends. I went there, prepared myself with a 5000 word hand written good bye letter of everything me and her shared and a final farewell. I literally told her EVERYthing i ever felt about her, every ounce of tears I cried because of her, every bit of pain I felt when she rejected me in the letter.
I made her cry like she was gonna run of water in her body. Lol, it's funny but it's not funny.
Anyways, fast forward 8 months from now, it's currently present, because I am typing this in this forum.
Over the course of 8 months, I had done vast improvements on myself, here are some examples:
-New haircut
-New wardrobe
-New shoes
-New phone
-New attitude
-New body (P90X workout EVERYDAY in the gym)
I changed a hell lot but still had no success with women, until I read those 2 books 1 month ago (Summer holiday) and got really confident.
Because of my new look and change, as I began the second year of senior highschool, last month, I have gotten WAY more female friends that I had in my whole life. Girls would literally ask me out to lunch every day.
My bros would ask me what changed in me that made me so popular with the females. But what is most important is Kelly has grown interest in me.
The reason I got friendzoned so hard before is because I almost never touched Kelly by my own will, so the touch barrier was never broken.
And as I have classes with Kelly, she is always looking at me and smiling when I look back at her. We bumped into each other in a corridor and I picked her up, and did a sorta dance spin move and winked at her. She was speechless and a little bit blushed. But we never messaged each other still.
And on her twitter page she started complaining how she is always forever alone and started doing shisha and drinking (WHICH i hate her from changing like this because I know from the bottom of her heart, she is not this type of person)
She always look tired nowadays because she always sleep very late and always seem sad.
Anyways, what I am asking for my fellow PUA forum friends, is to advice me on what to do, to break out of the friend-zone area she put me in and turn her into a lover.
If you have read to this point, I salute you! Because you have just read 1400+ words from me.
Once again, THANK YOU!
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