I've had a great night out in the town with mates.. put my mind off of things

Visited work today and she was there.. she seemed almost scared to see me. She was looking at the ground when talking and acting really quite strange, as if she didn't know me. I acted all upbeat and happy talking to the other staff.

I have an uncontrollable urge to text her asking why she was like it... do I restrain myself or not?.. I haven't spoke to her in a couple days and she just seemed so.. awkward?

What do I say?

Don't text. Let her feel awkward. Why do you care so much that SHE feels awkward? That's her problem really.

I shouldn't should I? But for some reason I do. I will restrain myself from texting..

Work tomorrow is going to be FUN..

so you moved on now?

Pretty much haha, I've actually had a great few weeks

Got with her all last night and a little more

Feels gooood!

How did it all go down? Cause just a little over a week ago you said you'd moved on...

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Man I love these Oneitis stories... Please indulge us.

I'm off out now, but later on I'll post the whole story!

It's good news

Okay guys, here we go:

As you know she went on holiday and only just got back - and almost right away she invited me to her house. Nothing happened here, but it was a nice time, she cooked me dinner, we had a laugh etc. I went home to a text "thanks for coming over, I had a really good time ". So far so good right?

Over the next week I only really saw her a couple times at work, and nothing much really happened there. So one morning I get up and go into work not expecting her to be there (it's her day off) but she's there. For some reason this whole day we really hit it off, both flirting and getting along.. So when I tell her I'm going out with some mates that evening she jumps at the chance to come along, which of course I am fine with! I asked her if she wanted to stay the night and she said she'd love to.

So next thing it's the night out and she is all cuddly with me in public, my mates were even in shock at how flirty she was being! So literally, we go back to mine, pop on a film (movie to you guys in the US), lie down, and watch all cuddled up. I'm thinking to myself "Right.. tonight you're going to make a move, you aren't going to sit regretting it for the next week because you wimped out again". Next thing she turns around to face me, and of course I go in for a kiss. She kisses back - we get off for ages. One thing leads to another and I end up fingering her, she loves it - orgasms a good few times, all is well. Then she says "This is weird.. but it's so good" What the hell does that mean? It's a good thing right? Is it weird because she's known me so long? I can't quite work that one out. But either way, after that she says "I don't think we should do much more as it's our first time together" (that's a hint of wanting to do it again right?). I respect her wishes and we kiss for quite a while longer and eventually go to sleep. The next morning after she leaves she texts me saying "Thanks again for last night, let's keep it our secret ". Again - I respect her wishes.

Now. I'm stuck again - which is why I'm here. There is another guy, who has admitted he likes her, she has got with him before and they are seeing eachother all the time around college (I can't really do much about this). The next time I saw her was at work, she was quiet at first.. almost awkward.. but in truth I felt quite strange around her so it was understandable.. we are back to normal now, but we are yet to talk about the night we got together.. and I kind of want to clear things up.

See the way I see it is the longer I leave it the more she has to doubt things.. I asked her to stay again this weekend and she said "Maybe, if I'm free I'll let you know ".. she seems almost.. kind of awkward still? I don't know.. Maybe I'm thinking too much into it. I figured after the first kiss it would be easy going from there on..

How do I make sure to get with her again without being too obvious of my intentions? I don't want to come across as desperate.. because that is always bad with girls.

Yes, that was a hint to do more! THAT NIGHT!

But her LMR had kicked in! She didn't want to look like, or feel slutty!

Instead of continuing to "make out" and let it ride. Jump up say "fine" and wander off to play a video game, watch TV, make a sandwich...anything but pay attention to HER!

She will wonder WTF?? "Does he not like it/me?" "Dose he want more?" "Maybe I should have?"

Let it chill for a few.....then start over with a kiss. MAGIC!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Crap!! That night?! Did I blow it haha?!

You did not blow it, however you did not capitalise your opportunity.
She should appreciate the fact that you listened and stopped when she said. But as mentioned above you should have stopped showing interest in her.
Personally I have a close friend that I like also, we've known each other for 15 years, we went to the same primary and secondary school and currently in the same university and we see each other once a week. It's quite intense and it feels like we are together but the main question is....Do you want to have a girlfriend or lose a friend?
I don't think I'd like to lose her as a friend. I tell her everything and personally, I guess it would feel weird kissing someone I've known for that long; also she is a good wing
But I'm glad it's worked out for you, just don't show to much interest like you did before; avoid that vicious cycle.

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old enough to know better, young enough to go all night

She's staying over in the next week.. now what??!?