Planned 1st date with this girl early this week, we agreed to confirm with each other the day before. I text her the day before and called twice trying to confirm date, she did not respond to the text or my calls. Then today, the day of the date, she texted back in the late evening apologing about the late response and asking if I still like to hang out. What do you guys think? I think I should just say I already have plans otherwise, I seem like an AFC who is lame for hoping she would still go when she didn't really gave a damn or is playing games.

Oh well, already told her my current plan, but said later on I'm going somewhere else and if she's up for it, she could join me. I think this is the correct decision to make. She seem disappointed but is down to meet up in the future.

You handled it well.

No, you didn't handle it well. You should have just gone out with her!

"I seem like an AFC who is lame for hoping she would still go when she didn't really gave a damn or is playing games."

The thing is, you don't know why she didn't text back. She could have broken her phone. Or her phone could have run out of battery. Or been at work all day and then forgot to text back. Fuck man, she could have not answered your texts and calls because she was nervous about going on a first date with a guy that she likes! You have no idea what was going on, but the fact that she texted the next day apologizing and then saying she still wanted to meet up should have made you realize that.......err......she still wanted to meet up!

You don't need to play the power games by pretending you are busy and doing things more important than going out with her. Just go out with her.

As it happens, if she seemed dissapointed and still wants to see you, then hopefully no harm done. Try and get her out on a date ASAP, before you loose momentum. But realize this: you could have gone out with her and got laid that night.

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This makes alot of sense too... But a few days before, she said thursday she would be having a girls night out and friday & saturday she had to get up early for work. So she wasn't sure if she should just "rest up" friday or have a fun time with me. It was almost as if she's testing me to see if I would persist on asking her out, I did. Oh well, yeah in the text she also was saying she got really busy... I just felt it was too coicidental since the last text she sent me she said she'll text me to confirm or for me to text her if she forgets. Well, I figured she'd notice my text and multiple phone call attempts... Either way, I had the urge to still go with it but who knew what the outcome would have been. Thanks for the advice though and I'll have to consider this more depending on the situations in the future.