So, I had this HB8 showing serious interest in me... tons of really obvious IOIs.

However, she started behaving kinda weird lately, and I described some of her behaviour in the following thread:


i-think-this-girl-knows-about-pua-vt145076.html


Anyway, today, she started flirting with another guy in front of me.

How should I react?

You should simply not react

_________________
I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

Dont get angry, but she shouldn't be doing it and she needs to know it. Either have a quiet word with her somewhere without making a scene or if she does that again, simply strike up a conversation with a chick nearby. I couldn't find the attached thread to see her behaviour but it sounds like she is not as into you as she was, so you need to work on this.

do you like her?
if so, what have you done so far to move things in a direction towards sex?

Sorry, here's my earlier thread:

i-think-this-girl-knows-about-pua-vt145 ... highlight=

I'm not sure whether she just lost interest or is playing games, but during the week I asked her what she was getting for her birthday, and she responded: "Oh I'm not sure, I don't have a boyfriend..."

you should stop sitting around woundering what to do, the more you do this the more life passes you by and the higher chance she loses interest and moves onto other penises

if you like her you should just hit it up and go after her

you want to find out if she's interested or just playing games?, try to sleep with her, you'll find out fast

Thanks buddy, good advice.

Any specific tips or things to say to this girl?

Don't react to her actions at all in a way where she'll know this has affected you. My guess is that she's flirting with other guys because you haven't had the balls to make a move on her. It's her way of showing you she's attractive to men and available and if you don't move someone else will. You shouldn't mention it, behave jealously or anything else negative with regards to what she's done. Your only reaction should be fucking her next time the two of you are alone. Once you get to that stage she won't be flirting with other guys unless she's just an overly-friendly type.

you want the way to react to her, that sign from her it's ok, you want her to let you know you're not responsible, give you the ok, she takes the burden off you

you want that specific thing to say so she lets you know, that specific thing to do,

you know what she wants you to say and do?, she wants you to say and do what you want, and let her know she has that permission from you, she wants you to be sure of what you are saying a doing and not worrying about if she's ok with it, she wants a man who follows his passion and instinct rather then looking to others to define what that means for him

you must be leading, instead of following, you lead her towards the sex, you lead her towards having fun and lowering her inhibitions and convince her it's ok, because you know it is regardless of her insecurities

do that, rather then looking to her for how to get to sex and hoping she convinces you it's ok, it's ok, sex isn't that big of a deal, it's a natural thing, believe it strongly and she just may agree with you since you seem so sure of it

the only correct reaction, is no reaction at all, take action, don't live in reaction, if she's not on the same page, help her see the value in your way, if she can't, then maybe you are not meant to be together and she has some baggage, but you have to be willing to make yourself vulnerable and take the burden, take the responsibility for everything, don't put that pressure on her

give her a good time, passion, and make her feel like she is welcome, instead of trying to find out the right way to take some sort of prize from her, she wants the prize to, she just doesn't want to be looked down on for appreciating the same things you do, when she is not sure

GOOD LUCK

Flirt with other girls. Show her you have options.

In The Game, some girl Style was talking to when he was new started chatting up another guy and Mystery's advice was "punish her". And so Style ended up saying, "i'll just leave you two alone.." This made the girl sad and she came crawling back to him.

_________________
"Those who push themselves and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, humiliation, rejection or worse are the ones who become champions" -Style

For that to work you must have already built a strong attraction. If you haven't she won't care and will end up fucking the guy you've left her with.