Hey,
so there's this girl who booked one of the courses I'm teaching (it's a private course, so it's just her and me). The course takes place once per week for 2 to 3 hours and is unfortunately almost over (one more time to go).

It's always started out in a very flirtatious manner, but everytime I tried to move forward, she backed off. I once set up a 'study-date' with her, which I almost had to 'force' on her (asked her whether she wanted to get together to look over the material, which just got me a very vague reply; something like 'Oh, I'd have to check with my schedule' - so I asked her about three times in ten minutes before she agreed on the date). We finally went to a venue, went over the stuff and had a nice time.

Been playful with her since the day we first met... (last time I told her to lean in closer to me which she did until she suddenly backed off and accused me of wanting to bite her)

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Now, I personally don't really think my advances are uncomfortable to her, I think she's just being REALLY intimidated by them (I'm 29, she's 19 ...)


I don't want to push anything, but I'm afraid I'll have to since she'll be gone after next time...

I obvously need to build rapport / more comfort ...
What are good topics to start with that could possibly lead down the path of an intimate conversation that could make her feel the connection?

[EDIT] I dunno whether she's involved with anyone, I DO know that she doesn't have a boyfriend. Didn't even have to find out by myself... [/EDIT]

C'mon guys, nothing?

First off, it is pretty unethical for you to hit on a student of your's! Second off she was mot likely flirting because "cute" girls do that to get in good with their teachers. All you can do is try to initiate and escalate, if this fails take it for what it is. I suggest you continue the talk/chatting once you have finished as her tutor/teacher.


Peace...

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the first thought I would have is; the last time you are with her, act like you are disinterested in her but see if you can get her number right before you part ways to keep up with her progress. Keep in mind, I don't know exactly your situation or if this strategy fits.

another thing I would add is, 19 year olds have no idea what they want in life even though they think they do. you are 29 so you are much more matured. women do not emotionally, and socially mature, generally speaking until 25 or so and for some it's older. Gauging yourself at 29 on a 19 isn't what I would recommend neither is pursuing a student you are teaching.