i met this hb8 last month. we get along well now so we are friends. i like her but
1 she's already slept with other guys
2 she smokes.

i wana get into relationship with her but i don't feel comfortable because of the above 2 points. as afc as i sound i really wana help her stop and maybe date her. im not new to the PUA scene but i think this one girl is worth it for me to do this. genuinely i need help on how to ask her to be my gf.

Well how well has it been going? Any closes or have you gotten the LJBF? I believe there is always a way, but it just gets harder if there is no tension.

Also why is it such a big deal that she smokes? If you come at her trying to be her bf and telling her she needs to quit smoking it's probably just going to weird her out. Get in the relationship first then you can make such demands if you are really so inclined.

I would just say date other women who don't smoke and chill on this one for a while.

You can't always get the one you want.

Don't stress her. Let her be and pursue others. I am not saying to forget her all together but it sounds like she is out messing with guys. That is a big hint you should be out messing with girls!

Have a "whatever" mind frame about it.

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I don't smoke but most of the girls I have dated have smoked. I have usually ended up using that to my advantage down the road like "Well, I drink too much...You smoke so I guess that makes us even. I won't bother you about your smoking if you don't bother me about my drinking" or "I'll give up this or that when you give up smoking." Not very healthy but sometimes worth it to get your way.

I love dating women who smoke. The smoking area is the quietest place in the club and you can really use game to your advantage here. The other advantage is you get good isolation away from her social group (assuming she is the only smoker). The BIGGEST advantage to dating a smoker is they have an "oral fixation" if you know what I mean. i.e. They are very skillful at putting long things in their mouth

As for her sleeping with other guys, so what? It's the 21st century and some girls will sleep with lots of guys and decide who is the best one. Increase your social proof and sleep with other girls to increase attraction.