How does someone get going in college? If you're pretty much just starting from scratch how do you make friends and meet girls? I mean, I know a few people here and there, Im trying to join a fraternity, and I've got my eyes on a couple campus interest groups, but I still feel like there's some things I could be doing that I have missed.

I consider myself a beginner with girls, but I have studied some material and have recently put focus on inner game and confidence building. All things being equal, I've decided to start from square one again starting with building confidence. I hope to progress through the stages as quickly as possible, but I and others reading this who find themselves in a similar situation could use some advice.

How does someone go from zero to hero with girls on campus? What can you do if you're alone on a friday night? What about the people you text that don't text back? Do you guys think facebook is worth keeping around?

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The interest groups are a great place so that's good you are going that route. Other than that, college is a rare place where you run into people all the time and it gives you lots of opportunities for striking up conversation. So go to it and practice those conversational skills.

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So can you guys make suggestions on how to approach while on campus? I have sticking points galore when it comes to different situations, like the girls in class how to approach them?

I guess it's the social pressure that gets me. I know I think too much. When I've approached in the past I've been pretty effective. I even get some positive comments from time to time, but I still feel like there's something holding me back.

There's girls in class I'd like to talk to, but I can never get what I feel like would be my ideal approach situation. For instance: "she takes too long to leave the class should I wait for her?", or "everyone is leaving at once in a congested hallway so making my move here seems like suicide," or she's with people.

What about the girls who are walking to class? I know stopping one of them would be a cold approach and they're probably in a hurry for class. Is cold approaching a bad idea on campus? And what about the girls studying in the library? I just feels like to do any of this is like trying to jump off of a cliff!

Definitely go for the fraternity if you can handle it. I'm not sure what it's like at your school, but I know they can get expensive.

I pledged my first semester, and it definitely makes day to day life a lot better, and I go to a commuter school. It'll give you a network of friends and people who know girls right off the bat. If you join one that pulls a good amount of girls, you can forget about this place, because it'll solve most of your problems.

As far as class goes, I like to sit near someone I want to talk to and start talking about the homework or something before the start of class in order to engage everyone in my general area, and hopefully get her attention. If you get her to notice you, just catch up with her on the way out of class, start/restart a conversation and walk with her out of the lecture hall. It's not the ideal way I guess as it's sometimes hard to set up the right moment, but when it works it's more natural than an approach.