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PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 6:29 pm 
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How do I fix this current situation?, and move out from the friendzone. Below in quote is pretty much my last 8 months life summary with this female, I copied and pasted from a conversation with a friend, wasn't in a mood to type it all over again.
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Bro. What do I do when "she" pulls the "I just wanna be friends, not your girlfriend" line, when you been working so hard and always trying your best, and always fixing fights, problems and arguments, and ALWAYS being there, 8 months. There's been instances of males knowing her for 1-2 days and jumping her pants, I don't aim for that I like her heaps, but I'm not good enough or so. No idea what to do man. We fought last night cause we were talking about rating guys and I got out rated and I snapped at her and went off talking about how I'm not good enough etc and she pulled that line, I sent an apology text about not being good enough, and being angry, and mad, and being abusive, and agressive, no reply. I just feel as i've been thrown away into a corner, and she doesn't give a damn. I just feel so unwanted, and not good enough id rather her a friend than nothing but always hope for something more, I've done bad shit in the past like get angry, and mad when I seen her talking or interacting with other males, I have a jelousy problem, and all I use to almost start fights with these males and she use to go off and cry and shit and I always tried to apologize and fix it, I've gone from agressive and voilent to a sour puss, wuss, and a girly man. I've changed, for what? to get told I just wanna be friends, so upset man these feelings and how I feel right now I feel so down and upset, and shit, no matter how hard i give it my best, it doesnt seem good enough man. This is all related to majority of my statuses, and pics and shit. just fark. thats my life summary of the past 8 months bro.

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You are approaching this in a way doomed to fail. Think about what you said. This girl meets guys she barely knows and hooks up and then rejects you when you are always there for her showing her you care. Well she is using you. Why should she risk more with you when she has no need to? You are proving to her that you can be used.

You can't just stick around whining to her that it's not fair she uses you and then sleeps with other guys instead. You have to show her that you're the type of person who won't stand for being used.

Stop spending so much time with her. Stop giving her your feelings. Cut her off completely if you need to but at the very least just pull back and become very stoic around her and do all you can to focus elsewhere. There is no chance you are going to talk her into wanting you. If you pull back she may get curious and miss you. But if you keep giving her so much attention she has no reason to change anything with you.

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