Small story short, met a girl from online dating. Went out a few times, K closed after second date, very playful texting, had plans for the next day and she cancelled the morning of out of nowhere and seemed upset about it.

This was fine with me, we had only been out 3 times or so. So fast forward 6 months I tried to re-initiate through playful texts, she says he has a bf but keeps texting. After about a week of this she invites me out to a pub so a friend and me met her and one of her friends. We talked for about an hour and ended up getting really drunk and making out all night long. She told me the next day she had a bf and it was a big mistake, so I said okay, no problems. 2 days later she texted me again and I told her to stop because of the bf. She then said she was breaking up with him and she couldnt stop thinking about me. I tried to be patient but didnt last too long and this spurred about a 2 month dating stint without any labels and great sex. She knew I was into her and at one point she was definitely really into me.

After about 2-3 months I noticed she seemed to be losing interest and as I expected when I got back from a week long trip she called me and said she needed space, and I told her I understood and to take care and good luck.

Now that happened about 3-4 months ago, no contact since. I run into her friend at the bar and she says "I have been trying so hard to get her to call you" and then I notice she is there with her, I act polite and say hi and we have a short convo and that was it. The leave the bar portion and say we'll be on the dance floor come by and see. Me and my friends stayed at the bar for a few more drinks, but after a few I was drunk enough to go to the dance floor. I ended up dancing with her and making out again and then we leave the bar. I was completely drunk at that point and sent a few silly drunk texts saying we should meet up and blah blah, nothing too bad though. She replies the next morning laughing at my drunk texts and asks how my head feels. We texted back and forth a few times that day but I wasnt getting any real playfulness out of her so I just stopped replying and she hasnt texted since (its only been about 24 hours).

So what do I do? Say screw the girl that already dumped me twice (which I'm really not that upset about), or if I go after her how do I play it. Was this just a drunken night for her and she still doesnt want something serious or was I a rebound that she is now over? I'm confused as hell and wanted to see what others thought about it. Appreciate any help. And just to add, this girl is a hard 9.5 concerning looks, personality, and career, so a keeper and possibly worth a little extra effort in my book.

Don't focus on her too much, go game other women, and you'll know how to handle this girl because you'll be coming from a mindset of abundance and outcome independence rather than scarcity.

Thanks, I'm not too focused on her and have enough going on the side to keep myself entertained but she has more potential than the others I have pining after me right now as far as a relationship is concerned. Just curious as to if I should re-initiate and give it another go or just say screw it and that history will repeat itself and she'll probably flake within a few months anyway?

so why ask this question then?, if she didn't matter to you, and you weren't too focused on her, you'd just do as you pleased and it wouldn't matter either way what someone else had to say on the matter

fuck her, not fuck her, if you are indifferent it is all the same, more where that came from