I've had a lot of people ask me, when is the right time to become sexual? How do you escalate?

The answer seems complicated but it can become simple. All though there is a million variables based on the fact that all women are different and have different wants and needs. For example some want a relationship, some want a friend, some want fun and to hang out, some just want to get fucked. So many variables can seem overwhelming to the average joe.

The good news is there is always one certainty you can count on, one finite moment in time, something that you can see in every successful seduction you've had and even some failed ones.

What I'm talking about is "The Tipping Point"

This is the "exact" moment when the woman decides she wants to be intimate with you. It can be very subtle in some, yet blatantly obvious in others. Regardless! it will always be there.

The key to efficient success is being able to identify it when it comes and to act on it, it's basically a green light. You don't have to be the smooth talker or a master seductionist. (< not even sure if that is a word, but I like it) All you have to do is see it, know it. You can be an amateur at touching and escalating, you could fumble all around it till you get better and follow the basics( 1st base to home plate) the bottom line is, this is the time to act and usually ends well.

GO FOR IT! Be the beast you are, be the sexually charged man that you are. Don't worry about fucking it up, you have the green light, just make sure to act.

This is the perfect time to escalate, verbally and physically. If you don't want to go straight in for a kiss, or the touch, start talking sexual, be sexual!

This can take time, hours, days, weeks or just minutes, depending on the individual targets desires and needs.

I am certain many of you, especially the more advanced pua's can think of specific moments with certain women where you've seen the tipping point and acted on it, or can see it looking back now, especially with the women you never forget.

If you can make this a focal point during your seductions, it should eliminate a lot of the chaos. The great thing about it is, the more you are aware of it, the easier it is to identify. It comes with experience but eventually there will come a time when you start to see commonalities in women, identical or similar tipping points ( verbal,non verbal, conscious and unconscious)

Start off by asking your targets just after sex. Hey! what was the exact moment you knew we were gonna hook up? When did you know you wanted to kiss me? etc etc. then as she tells you, play it back in your mind. Do this every time you have sex with a new woman. You'd be surprised how many actions and words are common in women when they've decided.

If you can make this a part of your seductions and stick to the process, I guarantee you, eventually the once huge set of variables, will be but a few. Pretty soon you will see them as they happen and know exactly the precise time to act.

It is not limited to when she shows it, with good game you can prompt it. What's important is becoming aware and make a conscious effort to see it, past or present.

I urge you all to make this a priority if you are intending on getting good at seducing a lot of women. It will start to pay off sooner then you think.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Thanks man, great read. Ive never thought of this but its a great idea. Im always trying to learn a womans body language. Sexual talk comes natural to me and I think it would be easy to just ask. Genius

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Great post SA! 60 YOC calls it the It's On Moment or something like that. I don't want to give away much more than that because it is one of his key selling points on his book (to me at least).

When I read the thread's name I was thinking that it was talking about Malcolm Gladwell's best Seller The Tipping Point, a great book and some definite useful info when it comes to people but I just wasn't sure where you'd go with it.

Anyways The Tipping Point is really different and very circumstantial, it is based on your ability to read her behavior. I love that point when a woman decides she wants to hook up because at that point I OWN the interaction. You can say nearly anything and get away with it, no egg shells, just get sexual and take her home or tease the fuck out of her. I love teasing women, they usually tease men and all that but when you can tease them you are certainly the prize. I don't worry much anyway, I really push the envelope here and there for entertainment.

The Tipping Point is different and follows her response curve, some women are happier with you being aggressive and some get scared off and literally run for it when you make a move too soon. Even her response curve changes based on mood or who she is interacting with.

That Tipping Point happens when she makes that strong eye contact and looks at you with direct focus on you. Her body language is obvious, she is interested and dtf (sexual body language). The focus in her eyes is giving you her complete attention and the reason for that is because you are there, especially if you spot signs of arousal then you know that sexual tension is building. It's hard to explain but her eyes, how they look at you, along with their more sexual movement, and signs of arousal will say exactly where her mind is.

There is also this connection you can build with any person where when you fall in sync (the final phase of Perper's Three Core Sequence courtship process)- as you fall in sync and make eye contact- your minds begin to align and your sexual thoughts become hers or vice verse. So as the natural courtship process happens you will begin to be able to read her thoughts by strong eye contact and allowing the thoughts to come to you.

It sounds very outrageous and I understand if people don't want to agree with me but there is a video where they illustrate this concept and I've come to realize how naturally we use it through out life and just don't realize it. We use it to build sexual tension, or when we are reading someone's energy. Body language is a lot of it but that eye to eye strong connection makes the mind so much more transparent that I was incredibly surprised. Try it out, it does take confidence and the ability to have a blank mind (meditation practice is key). You aren't thinking you are letting her thoughts come to you. It's not like you will read all of her thoughts but you will feel some of them, hard to explain until you try it out.

If you get good at that eye contact you can figure out the Tipping Point with ease, and even transfer your intentions to her. Meaning she can get hot and aroused by seeing your imagining thoughts of fucking her. Warped Mindless calls this "Laser Eyes" in his ESP Sexual tension building guide and they do work. Building sexual tension is all about manufacturing that Tipping Point.

It's very important to master that "Tipping Point" how to get there and know when you've got there, the game plays differently on either side(there's no rules on one).

Peace and Love,

Vic

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