This is the best context I can think of to describe this question so bear with me. When I was on match.com,I used to get annoyed at the automatic "thanks,but" messages from chicks that weren't interested. But as my time on the site nearly ended,I actually respected them more for it. I mean they, for the lack of a better term, had the decency to at least let me know that they werent interested and not jerk me around like a dog on a chain or just ignore me flat out.

Like the quote from moneyball said "Would you rather get a bullet to the head, or fire to the chest or bleed to death?" I honestly just dont get why they do it.

Ill admit that theres some current context as to why im posting this,but I honestly dont want to get into it.Also,I just felt like ranting and not being frustrated.

in my experience if a girl is not interested she will not bother to communicate with you at all.

a response, even a thanks, but, is still a respose and they might just be waiting for you to convince them. you know what girls are like.